Ihave a problem that i,m not polite to kids and get frustrated quickly i get angry very quickly kindly advise what to do because keeping kids in control is also important and i want them to be good and obedient but confused what should be the way when to be strict and when not.
Question
Assalamalaikum
Ihave a problem that i,m not polite to kids and get frustrated quickly i get angry very quickly kindly advise what to do because keeping kids in control is also important and i want them to be good and obedient but confused what should be the way when to be strict and when not.
Also what is the meaning of the name iram ,is it a good name or should we change it.
JazakAllah.
Answer
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullah
Brother/Sister in Islam
Children are mischievous by nature. There is no point in getting angry with children when they are mischievous. They simply have to be controlled. However, if they do something wrong, foe example, speaking lies etc, then one should create an expression of anger in front of the child to discipline the child from bad and wrong habits.
And Allah Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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