Can they take part in such foreplay

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Assalamulaikum Mufti sahab, I have three questions
1) can a husband touch, insert his fingers in her wife\'s private parts during foreplay.(Is this act considered as modesty).
2) can a husband put some jam or honey on his wife breast and some other parts (not on private parts) and lick from there.(Is this act considered as modesty).
3) can a husband put his private part in between his wifes breast and between his wifes buttocks during foreplay.(Is this act considered as modesty).

Ml. Safraz Mohammed · Accepted Answer

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

Alaah Ta’ala says in the holy Quran; “Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth when and how you will”. (02:223)

The need for intimacy between spouses is natural. However, it should be fulfilled with shame, modesty and dignity. Whilst foreplay is permissible, the other issues referred in your e-mail are extremely disrespectful.

Sharia emphasizes on shame and modesty.

Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said; The door to all virtue is modesty”. ( Muslim, Vol. 2. Pg.48. Maktaba Thanwi Deoband )

Modesty is part of iman (faith). (Bukhari, Vol.2.Pg.203 Qadimi kutub khana)

The Ulama have stated that modesty repels one from disgraceful and repugnant things.

(Daleel-Al-Falehen-Li-Turuqi-Reyad-As-Salehen, Vol.3. Pg 149-150)

And Allah knows best

Wassalam

Ml. Safraz Mohammed,
Student Darul Iftaa

Checked and Approved by:

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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