now I want to become Hafizah & want to marry a person who is an Hafiz? Can u plz advice me on these matters?

· 3 Rabiʻ I 1423 AH1 min readFatwa 5639English
Character & Morals

Question

AOA Bro. My parents wanted me to get married while I was in school?but I wanted to study further for medicine! Then after completing my high school, I moved to USA for further studies..and met some people who changed my views n gave me Islamic lessons and I think that I should get married now! But I donno how to explain my parents..b?coz now they want me to study! And now I want to become Hafizah & want to marry a person who is an Hafiz? Can u plz advice me on these matters? JazakAllah

Answer

Marriage is a major step in life. You should exercise extreme caution in proceeding towards marriage.

Your happiness and grief depends on the type of person you marry. The choice of a marriage partner requires skills, wisdom and experience. For that, you should consult with your parents. Their guidance motivated by love for you and experience of life cannot be taken for granted. You should confide in them by being clear and transparent. Wait for their response and take the matter up from there.

and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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