Wife Not “In The Mood”

· 12 Safar 1446 AH1 min readEnglish
Marriage And Divorce

Question

Will it be correct for the wife not to fulfil her husband’s conjugal rights due to her not “being in the mood”?

Answer

Not being in the mood or experiencing slight discomfort is not a valid reason for refusing one’s husband his conjugal rights. Yes, if she is experiencing Haidh, Nifaas or severe illness then she may refuse intimacy. It is necessary for the husband to take the wife’s feelings and emotions into consideration. [Re: Fataawa Ibaadur Rahman Vol:7 Pg:282]

Answered by
Maulana Ahmed Saeed
Checked & approved by
Mufti Mohammed Desai Saheb
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