Marital problems
Question
What do I do. This is what my husband sent to me as as result of an argument we had about being intimate or the lack of intimacy. I must admit that I mistook sex for love. I watched porn yes. Sometimes the feeling of sex is great satisfactory fulfilling and sometimes the feeling of making love is beautiful. "I must also admit that I do get tired of having sex, or making love with the same person for 26 years, but it is my duty as a husband to deal with this. I also have a problem showing affection at times(most of the time)."
Answer
Why doesn't he take another wife, and if you are tired you can ask for a separation and get some other person of your choice.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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- Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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