Refraining from areas of doubt
Question
I loved a girl. We both were in love for sometime and family come to know about us. My family accepted our relationship and my mom asked there daughter for the marriage for which they refused. We are not in touch after that. After one year they sent us the proposal that they want to marry this girl to me. But I come to know some strange facts that she also had a relationship with her uncles and she also has boy friends. I didn't know she was a cheat. I have all the proof that she used to talk with her cousin brother and uncles over the phone. Please advice me. Is it permissible to marry this kind of girl?
Answer
We should refrain from areas of doubt. Getting ourselves involved in areas of doubt could lead to quarrels and disputes in the future. Hence it is best that you refrain if you are unclear.
And Allah Ta'ala knows best.
References (Arabic / Urdu sources)
عن الحسن بن علي رضي الله عنهما قال : حفظت من رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : " دع ما يريبك إلى ما لا يريبك فإن الصدق طمأنينة وإن الكذب ريبة (مشكاة الرقم: 2773)
- Answered by
- Mufti Zakaria Makada
- Checked & approved by
- Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
Fatawa SA is an independent, read-only index of fatawa already published by Mufti Online — Madrasah Ta'leemuddeen. It is not a fatwa service. For your own situation, ask the issuing Darul Ifta directly.