Relationship with in-laws after the demise of one's husband

· 23 Dhuʻl-Qiʻdah 1438 AH1 min readEnglish
Nikaah & Marriage IssuesIn-Lawsnikaahin-lawshusbanddeath

Question

When a husband passes away a) does the husbands father (father inlaw) remain a mahram for the wife? b) does the wife still have to go and visit her father in law? Or does she no longer have any relation with her inlaws? c) is it appropriate for the wife to say that that is my 'father inlaw' and 'mother inlaw'?

Answer

1) Yes

2) Since she is no longer in their family, she does not have to maintain the same relationship that she needed to maintain during the lifetime of her husband.

3) She should show a degree of consideration and respect to them. She should refer to them by saying that they were her father in law and mother in law.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Zakaria Makada
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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