Gifts ko waapis karna

Meri ek sahab se rishty k silsily m bat hoi unhe pata chala k meri birthday hai tu unho ny kuch gifts diye or kuch pesy diye k m ye apny uper kharch karo. me ny wo pesy return kar diye tu wo sahab mery ghar a k pesy de k gae k ye ap k hain ap chahe phenk de ya rakh de. m ny rakh liye phir wo bat agy nahe chali or un ki family wife or ghar walo ny mana kar dia. ub wo sahab mujh se pesy or gifts wapis mang rahe hain jo m kharch kar chuki hun. kia m responsible hun return karny ki?