Showing good character when working among people
Question
We are a group working together on various assignments. Lately, I started having fights with a friend who is also a co-worker due to his mood swings. This person presently does not like me due to few issues that took place between us. Please could you provide an emergency wazifa to remove hatred and anger from this person's heart for me so that our friendship can once again be restored.
Answer
When working among people, it is imperative for one to show good character and adopt an approach of cooperating and assisting. Mistakes are bound to take place, however, one should learn to forgive and overlook.
Merely reciting a wazifa without being concerned about improving one's character and correcting the relationship is not the complete solution. Rather, one should make up with the person in some way if one has hurt him, and in future, one should be more careful and cautious.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
References (Arabic / Urdu sources)
وَإِنْ تَعْفُوا وَتَصْفَحُوا وَتَغْفِرُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (التغابن: 14)
وَسَارِعُوا إِلَى مَغْفِرَةٍ مِنْ رَبِّكُمْ وَجَنَّةٍ عَرْضُهَا السَّموتُ وَالْأَرْضُ أُعِدَّتْ لِلْمُتَّقِينَ. الَّذِينَ يُنْفِقُونَ فِي السَّرَّاءِ وَالضَّرَّاءِ وَالْكظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ (آل عمران: 133-134)
عن عبد الله بن عمرو رضي الله عنهما قال لم يكن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فاحشا ولا متفحشا وكان يقول إن من خياركم أحسنكم أخلاقا (صحيح البخاري، الرقم: 3559)
عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال ليس الشديد بالصرعة إنما الشديد الذي يملك نفسه عند الغضب (صحيح البخاري، الرقم: 6114)
عن أبي الدرداء أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال ما شيء أثقل في ميزان المؤمن يوم القيامة من خلق حسن (سنن الترمذي، الرقم: 2002)
- Answered by
- Mufti Zakaria Makada
- Checked & approved by
- Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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