Obedience to parents
Question
Is it good to go against your parents wish and get married to girl whose out of one's caste and leave your parents? Is this fine? What does Allah Ta'ala say about this? What is the solution?
Answer
Try not to displease your parents. Obviously the experience and understanding they have is far greater than the experience you have. Allah Ta`ala loves obedience to parents.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
References (Arabic / Urdu sources)
عن بن عباس قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم من أصبح مطيعا في والديه أصبح له بابان مفتوحان من الجنة وإن كان واحدا فواحدا ومن أمسى عاصيا لله في والديه أصبح له بابان مفتوحان من النار وإن كان واحدا فواحدا قال الرجل وإن ظلماه قال وإن ظلماه وإن ظلماه وإن ظلماه (شعب الإيمان للبيهقي الرقم: 7538)
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- Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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