I want to marry my cousin, but my parents don't permit me.
Question
Sir, I am in a deep spiritual relationship with my cousin and we talk over the phone, being so far from each other(I am in Australia and she is in Pakistan. My parents don't permit me to do so. Can I still marry her on my own according to Islam.
Answer
According to Shari'ah, an adult (boy and girl) reserve the right to marry a partner of his/her choice. However, due to marriage being a major step in one's life, it is advisable to make Mashwara (consult) with your seniors as well as make Istikhaara (seek divine guidance). Somewhere on this site, search 'Istikhaara' (without quotes).
You should also consider the advise of your parents as it is motivated by their love and concern for you.
And Allah Taãla Knows Best.
Was salaam
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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