Obeying one's mother

· 11 Rabiʻ I 1439 AH1 min readEnglish
MiscellaneousRights of servantsRights of parentsrights of the motherobeying one's parentsfavouritism

Question

I am passing through a bad phase in life. My mother shows favoratisam between her children. She always hates so in return I disobey her. She prefers my brothers, what should I do in these circumstances? I want to commit suicide. She looks down upon me and teases me. I am an aalima and 25 years old. I feel a block on my heart when I disobey her but what can I do? Am I a sinner? How can I obey her?

Answer

Obey her and don't worry about the favouritism. May Allah Ta`ala soften her heart towards you.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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