Doubts before marriage
Question
I want to get married but many doubts arise in my mind, so I need your clarification in regards to this matter. Firstly, I always think that what if I ejaculate prematurely. Secondly, does the amount ejaculated matter as I believe I am fertile but want to know if a person should ejaculate a certain amount in order to fullfil the wifes rights. Also, does the strength of the orgasm itself matter and how long should the orgasm itself last. Besides this I know I am not impotent but I just feel that I should be able to satisfy the wifes needs as this is what is required. Because I fear Allah by going into a marriage and I am unable to fullfil the wifes rights. Other then this I try my best to have good akhlaq and live a life of taqwa.
Answer
If you are physically well then do not pay attention to these doubts.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
- Answered by
- Mufti Zakaria Makada
- Checked & approved by
- Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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