Dream

I read Istikhara and had a dream about someone leaving red roses on my door step, when I run out (a clear sunny day), I saw a guy who was handicap. I felt good about this in my heart, so married the guy, but today I've found out he's had a past, he's insecure type of guy, has a tattoo (which he say he will remove), has a huge temper problem. I'm in school and he threatened to divorce me as he wanted a kid and I didn't (he's still back home). What did my dream mean? Was he the right guy?