Family, Women & Children · Subtopic

Rights of Parents

744 fatawa from 9 South African Darul Iftas on Rights of Parents, part of Family, Women & Children. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.

Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.

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Rights of Parents fatawa — page 18 of 19

  1. Ask Imaam14 Apr 2009

    My mother sister’s little daughter is my razai sister (feeded milk of my mother in childhood) Can I marry with my mother sister’s elder daughter?

    My mother sister’s little daughter is my razai sister (feeded milk of my mother in childhood) Can I marry with my mother sister’s elder daughter?

    Ml. Sajid bin Shabbir
  2. Ask Imaam8 Apr 2009

    In my extended family there has been a debate as to who is responsible for the care of my grandparents, who are now largely unable to care for themselves. While it has been accepted that the sons (of which there are 7) must bear..

    In my extended family there has been a debate as to who is responsible for the care of my grandparents, who are now largely unable to care for…

    Ml. Ishaq E. Moosa
  3. Ask Imaam24 Mar 2009

    When a muslim woman with children remarries- to another muslim- is it haram for her to have contact with the father of her children/ex husband? Should the new husband be...

    When a muslim woman with children remarries- to another muslim- is it haram for her to have contact with the father of her children/ex husband?…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  4. Ask Imaam11 Mar 2009

    My wife used to leave my house very often without informing me without my permission & also there parents & grand parents used to misbehave with me & My parents she left

    My wife used to leave my house very often without informing me without my permission & also there parents & grand parents used to misbehave with me…

    Ml. Ishaq E. Moosa
  5. Ask Imaam4 Mar 2009

    My father have a second wife and left my mother for almost six years becouse my mother couldn`t accept his second wife. But however my father did not neglect his children but...

    My father have a second wife and left my mother for almost six years becouse my mother couldn`t accept his second wife. But however my father did…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  6. Ask Imaam6 Feb 2009

    1) I wanted to know if me and my friends were to go bowling and make the losing team or the person whose score is the lowest pay for all of us considered gambling? 2) 2) I want to get married so I can stay away from sins but my parents want me to get married after I get a job (become a doctor)...

    AssalaamuAlaikum Mufti Saab, 1) I wanted to know if me and my friends were to go bowling and make the losing team or the person whose score is the…

    Ml. Ismail Moosa
  7. Ask Imaam30 Oct 2008

    I am a married female living with my in-laws i.e. father in-law, mother in-law and my husband’s sister. My husband says I can only cover between my navel and knees in front of them...

    Sir I am a married female living with my in-laws i.e. father in-law, mother in-law and my husband’s sister. My husband says I can only cover between…

    Ml. Zakariyya bin Ahmed
  8. Ask Imaam18 Sep 2008

    If a daughter is adopted by a couple as a baby and the child is breast fead by her adopted mother, when the girl matures - does she have to wear Hijab infront of her adopted father or not?

    If a daughter is adopted by a couple as a baby and the child is breast fead by her adopted mother, when the girl matures - does she have to wear…

    Ml. Yusuf bin Yaqub
  9. Ask Imaam11 May 2008

    I would like to know what are the duties of a daughter after marriage towards her parents

    We are five sisters and have no brothers. My father is the only earning member of the family and he stays abroad.I used to help in all the household…

    Ml. Asif Umar
  10. Ask Imaam24 Apr 2008

    Rights of the Wife and Parents

    I am living in Italy and my wife and one daughter is also with me. I want to ask about the HAQOOQs of parents and wife. I am earning enough to full…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  11. Ask Imaam18 Feb 2008

    If a wife is working to earn money through a regular job should she pay her expenses to perform Hajj even if her husband is willing to pay for her.....What is the rulling in sharia for a 19 & 21 yrs old full time student performing Hajj with their parents....What is the rulling in sharia to immigrate in a nonmuslim country.

    1.If a wife is working to earn money through a regular job should she pay her expenses to perform Hajj even if her husband is willing to pay for…

    Ml. Safraz Mohammed
  12. Ask Imaam10 Nov 2007

    After sleeping with my wife when should gusal be performed, immediately after or can it be done, a few hours later, before fajar.... As a child age around 12 my father used to beat my mother regularly, ...

    1. A) After sleeping with my wife when should gusal be performed, immediately after or can it be done, a few hours later, before fajar. As I live in…

    Sister Fadila
  13. Ask Imaam2 Mar 2007

    Her father is a jew and some friends also! I thing they plan something to do to me and my family!

    many things happen between my wife and me her father is a jew and some friends also! I thing they plan something to do to me and my familie! She sad…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  14. Ask Imaam17 Oct 2006

    I am 27 years old, I would like to know I have been seeing a Hindu girl for about a year. I really love her and want to marry her. Her parents accept me as her mother’s sister is now Muslim and my friend has a Muslim sister from another mother

    Assalamu-alaikum I am 27 years old, I would like to know I have been seeing a Hindu girl for about a year. I really love her and want to marry her.…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  15. Ask Imaam6 Oct 2006

    My question is….its been more than one year now when I was not even pregnant my father-in-law asked me if me and my husband have intercourse properly coz I was not pregnant yet and if I had my menses

    Assalamualaikum, I have a question related to fatwa #13239,you said that “when a man touches his daughter-in-law lustfully the marriage between his…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  16. Ask Imaam15 Aug 2006

    My parents are still hindus.I pray for them to become muslim.But my husband is not allowing me to talk with them.what am i supposed to do?

    I am a new muslim.Alhamdulillah.My parents are still hindus.I pray for them to become muslim.But my husband is not allowing me to talk with…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  17. Ask Imaam12 Jun 2006

    child goes threw four stages in the womb of the mother, the last of which is that allah gives a ruh to the child and and the angel writes four things for the baby

    it is narrated in a hadith that an nabi(saw) said that the child goes threw four stages in the womb of the mother, the last of which is that allah…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  18. Ask Imaam1 May 2006

    Asylum separating the family from the husband/father

    one of my friend came to uk with his family on visit visa.His husband got the work and he started the job. One of his friend suggested him to apply…

    Mufti Muhammad Kadwa
  19. Ask Imaam31 Oct 2005

    began wearing Hijab. My old friends have became outcasts because they have negative influence on me. However I cannot make my parents or cousins outcastes because they are always around me

    I have began wearing Hijab about 6 months ago out sincerity to Allah (swt). My old friends have became outcasts because they have negative influence…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  20. Ask Imaam20 Sep 2005

    He is a sunni hanifi brother and will soon do nikah with a sunni hanafi girl, however she has shiia parents

    Assalaamu alaykum. I am asking this on behalf of a close muslim friend. He is a sunni hanifi brother and will soon do nikah with a sunni hanafi…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  21. Ask Imaam14 Jul 2004

    1-Are my parents allowed to abuse my wife and blame him about not performing her jobs properly e.g. cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, and not giving enough time and response to my mother?

    I am married, living in combined family alongwith my parents, I want to ask the following questions, 1-Are my parents allowed to abuse with my wife…

    Ml. Imraan Vawda
  22. Ask Imaam19 Jun 2004

    Q. 1 - What is our obligations towards our parents? I want to know is there anything wrong brining my wife? Isn’t it enough If I arrange some one at home to take care of them?

    I am working in Saudi Arabia and my family contains my mother, Grand Mother, My wife and Childs. Now I am planning to bring my wife for 2/3 months…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  23. Ask Imaam7 Jun 2004

    1. Am I considered a mehrem for my wife’s grandmother (not her father’s mother) who was her grandfather’s 2nd wife?

    1. Am I considered a mehrem for my wife?s grandmother (not her father?s mother) who was her grandfather?s 2nd wife? 2. Is my khaloo considered as a…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  24. Ask Imaam7 May 2004

    Parents do not allow me to go in Jam’aat

    I am a baaligh Muslim male living in Pakistan. I feel that my Imaan is very weak. I may easily go astray with the Imaan I have. So I am in a great…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  25. Ask Imaam23 Mar 2004

    Should i keep contact with a namehram that i really like but i don't want to go against shariah and i don't want to go against my parents' wishes what should i do?

    I really like this person that i know from internet chats, I've never seen him he has never seen me but yet the way he thinks and the way he handles…

    2SOCIAL DEPT
  26. Ask Imaam12 Mar 2004

    is my grandfathers maternal uncle considered my mahram???

    Your grandfather?s maternal uncle is your Mahram. (Shaami vol.3 pg.30; HM Saeed) and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best Mufti Ebrahim Desai

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  27. Ask Imaam13 Nov 2003

    (1)What are the laws of inheritance for children in the property owned by their mother?(2)Can a mother nominate her own property to one of her five children?

    1. The children will inherit from the property owned by their mother. Their share will depend on the number of other heirs the mother leaves behind…

    Mufti Muhammad Kadwa
  28. Ask Imaam12 Nov 2003

    Myself and a lady have both wanted to get married now for 6 years, but our parents have refused to allow this...

    Myself and a lady have both wanted to get married now for 6 years, but our parents have refused to allow this. Her parents forced to her to get…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  29. Ask Imaam27 Oct 2003

    is it a sin to meet a girl or go on a date with her .whom u love so much ,and will marry soon . after completing studies .and if both parents knows about them ..

    is it a sin to meet a girl or go on a date with her .whom u love so much ,and will marry soon . after completing studies .and if both parents knows…

    Sister Fadila
  30. Ask Imaam28 Sep 2003

    My friend has been involved with a boy for the last couple of years...Her parents were furious when they found out that she went out with him, and they lost their trust in her

    My friend has been involved with a boy for the last couple of years. Their relationship began with internet chatting, but progressed to full…

    1Social department
  31. Ask Imaam23 Sep 2003

    I want u to know whether my mother & I can shift the house after 40 days of my father’s death

    I want u to know whether my mother & I can shift the house after 40 days of my father?s death Or do we have to wait till she finished her iddat. We…

    Mufti Muhammad Kadwa
  32. Ask Imaam9 Sep 2003

    Further to my question 9451 from Kuwait Re: Subject: Parents Demands Regarding Wife

    Mufti Sahib, Assalamu Alaikum, With reference to your below mentioned Fatwas (question 94519451from Kuwait Re: Subject: Parents Demands Regarding…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  33. Ask Imaam5 Sep 2003

    1) parents' angerness ...they always tell me that keep these pigeons on roof..but problem is that cat will eat my all pigeons ..roof is not safe...they are not understanding my prob..??

    is it permisible to kept pet pigeons in home??not roof..i m not seller of pigeons means i m not professional of pigeons. I am a medical student of…

    Mufti Muhammad Ashraf
  34. Ask Imaam28 May 2003

    Can I go to tableeghi jamaat without the permision of parents?

    assalamualaikum, 1) I am 19 years old and ALHAMDULILLAH I am attached with tablighi work and feel it's importance but my entire family is against…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  35. Ask Imaam17 May 2003

    Non believers go to hell? my parents and other family members who are still Hindus, or rather non-believers. Will all Non Believers go to hell?

    I am a recent revert to Islam and Inshallah I want to practice this true religion the right way. My question pertains to my parents and other family…

  36. Ask Imaam30 Mar 2003

    Is it permissable to view our parents on a Webcamera?

    AssalamAlaikum, I live away from my parents with my husband. Alhumdulillah we are both trying to practice Islam completely. We believe in not take…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  37. Ask Imaam21 Mar 2003

    Am I a mahram with my mother's maternal aunty?

    Yes, she will be your Mahram. (Aalamgiri vol.1 pg.273) and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best Mufti Ebrahim Desai

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  38. Ask Imaam4 Feb 2003

    Should she have an abortion? a friend of mine has got his girlfriend (a non Muslim) pregnant, the girl's parents want an abortion, the boy does not and the girl is confused...

    a friend of mine has got his girlfriend (a non Muslim) pregnant, the girl's parents want an abortion, the boy does not and the girl is confused, the…

    Mufti Muhammad Kadwa
  39. Ask Imaam13 Jan 2003

    1)To what extent should a person obey his parents?2)How can I be the one to listen to my parents?3)What is meant by brother in law is death?

    1)I am 17,I have been in the work of Dawah & Tabligh for the past year.Since then my parents and relatives see me as extreme as I practice on many…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  40. Ask Imaam4 Oct 2002

    Why must women be 'odebient'? I have read on your site the many ways of creating an 'obedient' wife. Where I come from we train our dogs to be obedient not our people

    I have read on your site the many ways of creating an 'obedient' wife. Where I come from we train our dogs to be obedient not our people. How can…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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