Social, Media & Ethics · Subtopic
Friendship & Gender Interaction
263 fatawa from 7 South African Darul Iftas on Friendship & Gender Interaction, part of Social, Media & Ethics. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
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Friendship & Gender Interaction fatawa — page 5 of 7
- Ask Imaam27 Sep 2006
Can you please tell me how to get rid of hurt that I am feeling? I had a girlfriend
Assalamo Allaykum Can you please tell me how to get rid of hurt that I am feeling? I had a girlfriend who I am no longer with however I am very hurt…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam13 Sep 2006
On a daily basis I send out short enlightening phrases/verses from hadeeth to my friends via SMS (text message) to their cellular phones
On a daily basis I send out short enlightening phrases/verses from hadeeth to my friends via SMS (text message) to their cellular phones. I am in…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam5 Jun 2006
Whom should a muslim consider as a friend and whom should he/she ignore?
Q1. Whom should a muslim consider as a friend and whom should he/she ignore? Assalaamu Alaikum. I’m 19 years old (male). Throughout the school &…
Mufti Muhammad Kadwa - Ask Imaam11 Apr 2006
have a friend who has a brother who is gay. He has has this disease for some time now about 3/4 years. He announced this to the family and wanted the family to accept him as he is
I have a friend who has a brother who is gay. He has has this disease for some time now about 3/4 years. He announced this to the family and wanted…
Muhammed Zakariyya Desai - Ask Imaam28 Mar 2006
Please tell us if handing out sweets and methai after the birth of the baby to family and friends is permissible?
1. Inshallah soon we will be having a baby. Please tell us if handing out sweets and methai after the birth of the baby to family and friends is…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam16 Mar 2006
Do you have any contacts where we could purchace Alim books. My friend is studying with a shaikh, and has found a hard time locating books, specifically for the last year of his sudies
Do you have any contacts where we could purchace Alim books. My friend is studying with a shaikh, and has found a hard time locating books,…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam2 Dec 2005
I, with my few friends, committed sodomy for a few times. It started when I was not mature and I matured during the time...We did it for just pleasure;
I, with my few friends, committed sodomy for a few times. It started when I was not mature and I matured during the time...We did it for just…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam31 Oct 2005
began wearing Hijab. My old friends have became outcasts because they have negative influence on me. However I cannot make my parents or cousins outcastes because they are always around me
I have began wearing Hijab about 6 months ago out sincerity to Allah (swt). My old friends have became outcasts because they have negative influence…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam31 Oct 2005
I, with my few friends, committed sodomy for a few times. It started when I was not mature and I matured during the time
I, with my few friends, committed sodomy for a few times. It started when I was not mature and I matured during the time...We did it for just…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam29 Sep 2005
How does one know if he is a Wali (friend of Allah) can you please give me some signs of a Wali.
How does one know if he is a Wali (friend of Allah) can you please give me some signs of a Wali. Jazak-Allah.
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam6 Sep 2005
I have not been to the mosque in a while, and if I go it may be to see the imam and another friend.
I have not been to the mosque in a while, and if I go it may be to see the imam and another friend. My main intention will not be to pray but to see…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam1 Sep 2005
She and her boyfriend have committed zinaa and in the event she fell pregnant. She then had an abortion at 2months
A fried have committed a very serious sin. She and her boyfriend have committed zinaa and in the event she fell pregnant. She then had an abortion…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam7 Nov 2004
How to help? A friend of mine has hired a nanny, a 20 year old Muslim girl, to live in her house & help her take care of her kids, while she goes to college etc.
A friend of mine has hired a nanny, a 20 year old Muslim girl, to live in her house & help her take care of her kids, while she goes to college etc.…
Ml. Husain Kadodia - Ask Imaam10 Aug 2004
Is it permissible in Islam to have friendship(not close) with the non-muslims through chatting on the internet?
I had some non-muslim friends with me. I chatted with them regularly but a Muslim friend of mine told me it is not permitted in Islam so I stopped…
Ml. Husain Kadodia - Ask Imaam20 Jul 2004
One of my friend is too much involved in me. once she met me and due to shaitaan i touched her and kissed her for a second on her cheeks. how can i avoid it next time and how Allah will forgive me?
I have a friend. she is too much involved in me. I tried my level best to avoid her but could not do so. she calls me everyday. once she came to…
1SOCIAL DEPT - Ask Imaam19 Jul 2004
What should be my conduct with my father's younger brother under these circumstances? My uncle has been known to indulge in alcohol & other vices. His friends indulge in all these vices with him.
My grandfather had passed away when my uncle was very young & my father and his elder brother brought up my uncle [ their youngest brother.] Due to…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam29 Jun 2004
i have american friend who wanna know about Islam ? can i send Holy Qoran in english with its Tafseer ,is that OK
he ask for some books ,i was wondering if you can suggest me good books ,and if can i send Holy Qoran in english with its Tafseer ,is that OK!! or…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam24 Jun 2004
My friend and I love eachother and did zina. We dcided to get married but our family has become an obstacle, she’s sacrificing her love for others
I?ve known a girl for the past 2years,we came really close 9 months ago &comitted zina. A month after I got into a car accdent which resulted in a…
1SOCIAL DEPT - Ask Imaam22 Jun 2004
Pig leather...There are different views about the use of pig leather. One of my friend stresses that it can be used after tanning process
There are different views about the use of pig leather. One of my friend stresses that it can be used after tanning process, by quoting one hadees…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam19 Jun 2004
I had a boyfriend last 2 years ago, I broke up I really miss him so can I have a dua to forget him. I am trying to start my new life.
You should bear in mind that intermingling of the sexes before marriage is completely haram. If you wish to have peace of mind and lead a clean…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam21 May 2004
My friend lied that her grandfather passed away to get leave from work. Her work friends gave money for the funeral. What must she do with the money? Is this a big sin?
It is considered a major sin to lie. Allah Ta'ala curses the liars in the holy Qur'aan. Rasulullah [Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam] states, 'A person…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam7 May 2004
I have a Christian friend interested in learning more about Islam. Can u recommend some english books or websites that would be beneficial in order to invite them & show the beauty of Islam?
Also are you familiar with the book "The Complete Idiot's Guide to Understanding Islam" by Yahiya John Emerick? And if so, would you recommend it…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam22 Mar 2004
my friend lives in holland where marijuana is legal,he says its not a hard hitting drug and doesnt take you out of the mental stay of mind to pray is it ok for him to still use it
According to the Shari?ah, it is not permissible to use Marijuana. (Shaami vol.3 pg.239; HM Saeed) Ummi Salma [Radhiallaahu anhu] reports that…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam15 Mar 2004
i met a girl in a trip far away from home..we were livign together and she became good friend of mine...i had sex with her.whats the Kafara of this...?
i met a girl in a trip far away from home..we were livign together and she became good friend of mine. i accepted her as my wife and one night i had…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam10 Mar 2004
Difficult Life I am having...family and friends are married, those who are engaged are waiting to get married, those who are married are expecting their child ...What am I looking for in life??
I believe that its naseeb and taqdeer and I cannot do anything to change it, but I still can?t cope with life this way. All family and friends are…
1Social department - Ask Imaam26 Feb 2004
i committed a mistake of homosexual act with my close friend.i did thawba but again happened.how should i behave with him
it was with my close friend.we stopped it but still afraid.it should not happen again.for me iman is the first thing.i need allahs pleassurre love…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam16 Jan 2004
I would like to ask you two questions. One deals with a really close friend of mine and the way her father treats her, and the second one deals with her father's unIslamic beliefs.
My friend has done many wrong things, which I have tried to talk her out of, but she refuses to listen to reason. She has had a boyfriend for the…
2SOCIAL DEPT - Ask Imaam14 Jan 2004
I’m suffering from severe depression because I don’t have any pious friends in this kafir country. My family is too westernised and treats me unfairly due to differences. Your advice please
It is most certainly a bounty from Allah Ta?ala, that you be chosen to follow and be close to Allah Ta?ala, Nabi [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam],…
2Social Dept - Ask Imaam12 Dec 2003
Friend has consumed alcohol, how do i explain to him this is wrong? Could you tell me all the types of liquids (e.g.sperm, mazi etc) that come out of the male private parts...
Could you tell me all the types of liquids (e.g.sperm, mazi etc) that come out of the male private parts, and also tell me how you know if it is…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam10 Dec 2003
Friend has consumed alcohol, how do i explain to him this is wrong? Could you tell me all the types of liquids (e.g.sperm, mazi etc) that come out of the male private parts...
1) A daughter-in-law has no obligation to her in-laws (looking after them, staying with them etc) but if they ask her to cook, make tea, clean etc…
Mufti Bilaal Cassim - Ask Imaam19 Nov 2003
I just had a fight with one of my friend.Please let me know that not talking to my friend does it affect my Iman or my Faith somehow
As i just dont want to keep any relation with that person. Would not talking to him affect my Iman in any way ?
Mufti Bilaal Cassim - Ask Imaam3 Nov 2003
is it harom 2 talk 2 guyz but not religion wise just as friends
The answer to your question is very straight forward. It is not permissible for males to talk to non mahram (those whom he can marry) females even…
Ml. Imraan Vawda - Ask Imaam14 Oct 2003
Is it allowed to have a g/f in islam AS A friend only
I was going out with this girl, a few days ago she told me that our relationship is moving to fast.what should i do..?she studing and feels that…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam30 Sep 2003
I had a dream a boy that i like at school was kissing my friend what does this dream mean please tell me because i am really scared that i might lose him.
According to our understanding, you are a female. If our understanding is correct, then we wish to point out that it is Haraam (strictly prohibited)…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam28 Sep 2003
My friend has been involved with a boy for the last couple of years...Her parents were furious when they found out that she went out with him, and they lost their trust in her
My friend has been involved with a boy for the last couple of years. Their relationship began with internet chatting, but progressed to full…
1Social department - Ask Imaam2 Sep 2003
some of my friends say prophet mohd (pbuh) saw hazrat ali's hand and ring on the night of meraj and it is written in hadiths also. please clear my doubt
We have not come across any such Hadith. Request your friends to qualify their claim with authentic references. and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best Mufti…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam12 Aug 2003
Can my Finacee have male friends...?
Dear Mufti.I intend marrying a young lady soon(Insha-ALLAH)by December 2003.She is a girl that appeared in my Istikhaara Dream.She is a good girl…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam23 Jul 2003
Should I blackmail my fathers girlfriend with nude photos of her I found with him, in staying away from him?
My father is a univ. prof. and he has been having a phone relationship with one of his assistant teachers. Anyway, he talks to her over 2-3 hours a…
1SOCIAL DEPT - Ask Imaam28 May 2003
I was told by a friend that there’s a Hadith that says that “Salaam” cannot be said to 3 people: a kafir, a person who drinks alcohol, and a non-Mahram.
I would like to know if this is true, and if so, the Source of it.
Mufti Muhammad Ashraf - Ask Imaam22 May 2003
Is dating allowed in Islam? Can one have a girlfriend or boyfriend?
It is Haraam (strictly prohibited) for a boy to have a girlfriend and for a girl to have a boyfriend. Any type of contact including dating between a…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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