Marriage · Subtopic
Intimacy & Marital Relations
703 fatawa from 6 South African Darul Iftas on Intimacy & Marital Relations, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Intimacy & Marital Relations fatawa — page 12 of 18
- Mufti Online15 Feb 2015
Unable to satisfy one's wife naturally due to injury
I have had spinal cord injury therefore, I don't get erection so no sex. My wife needs it and I want to do it. I am a young man 40 years old.…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online14 Feb 2015
Listening to music
Is it permission to listen to music with one's husband to be more romantic and is it permissible for him to sing for his wife or for the wife to…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Ask Imaam13 Feb 2015
Which dates are makrooh for conjugal relationship?
Please can you clarify the ffg with regard to relations between spouses: 1. Is it makrooh to engage on the 1st, middle and last of the lunar month…
Ismail Dawoodjee - Mufti Online2 Feb 2015
Breastfeeding one's step son
I have a question about my step son. What does Islam say about breastfeeding a step son (he is my husband's son, his mother has left this child in…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online24 Jan 2015
Marrying one's cousin
I have two uncles. My grandmother has breastfed my elder uncle's first child. Now my parents want me to marry younger uncle's daughter. So, is it…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online21 Jan 2015
Dressing up for the husband in the bedroom
When the husband and wife are alone, is it permissible for the wife to entertain her husband by wearing a sexy dress, clubwear dress, etc?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online21 Jan 2015
Being intimate while the wife is experiencing haidh
According to hanafi madhab, if a woman has a sexual urge during menstruation, is it permissible for her husband to rub over her private area (while…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online7 Jan 2015
Masturbating
My wife is unable to reach sexual satisfaction by sexual intercourse or by me stimulating her. Is she allowed to masturbate in front of me while we…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online7 Jan 2015
Breastfeeding
How many times should breastfeeding take place in order for foster relationship to be established?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Ask Imaam30 Dec 2014
Can the husband have relations with his wife during menses and during post natal bleeding?
I am in helpless situation and without feeling shame i am going to ask this question as it is very very important and i must be abstrain from sinful…
Saleem Khan - Mufti Online17 Dec 2014
Having relations more than once in one night
I want to know that how many times can a man have sexual intercourse with his wife in one night? If he does it more than one time, does he need to…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Dec 2014
Husband and wife shaving each other
Can a man remove hair in the private parts of his wife and vice versa?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online10 Dec 2014
Being intimate with one's wife during haidh
We know that sexual intercourse is haram when wife is in menstrual period but can husband masturbate his wife during menstrual period if the wife…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online29 Nov 2014
Comparing one's wife to other women
Please advise me, my husband compares me with other women during intimacy.
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN27 Nov 2014
Pre-Marital Relations
Assalamu’alaikum i wanna ask that : if a girl and a boy did sex and then they want marry together, is their nikah will be valid after their sex done…
Mufti Ismaeel Bassa - Mufti Online18 Nov 2014
The spouses covering themselves during intercourse
1. Is it permissible to be naked at the time of intercourse in the room? 2. Is it allowed to suck vagina?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online8 Nov 2014
Kissing the private areas
Can a husband kiss near the vagina and anal of his wife and can a women kiss the penis of a man or near the penis because in this way fluid will not…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Ask Imaam28 Oct 2014
My husband is not fulfilling my marital rights. What should I do?
I am after some guidance concerning my marriage. I have been married two years and there's a few things I am really unhappy about with my husband.…
Sohail ibn Arif - Mufti Online21 Oct 2014
Reading the book 50 shades of grey
Is it permissible for husband and wife to read the book 50 shades of grey to spice up the bedroom life.
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Ask Imaam30 Sep 2014
How can I rebuild a relationship with my wife after the way I have mistreated her?
I am a doctor. I am ... years age. Got married years ago. It was an arranged marriage. I saw my wife before the wedding on multiple occasions and…
Fahad Abdul Wahab - Mufti Online29 Sep 2014
Kissing one's wife
I am soon to be married, insha-Allah. I want to know either it is allowed in Islam to kiss from the navel to knee excluding the private parts?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online29 Sep 2014
Breast milk
Can a husband deliberately drink his wife's milk before the birth of the child? Please clarify with references.
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online24 Sep 2014
Spouses looking at each others private parts
I read some where that husband and wife are not permitted (in Islam) to see each other's sex organs. If they see, their nikkah becomes void. Is that…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online21 Sep 2014
Kissing on the lip
Is it permissible for a married couple to kiss on the lips?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online25 Aug 2014
Husband and wife living in different countries
I came abroad after one month of my marriage. I do video chat with my wife and open cloths on cam and we both do masturbation. Is it haram? Please…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online25 Aug 2014
Being intimate during nifaas
If husband and wife rub there private parts (not intercourse) having cloths (not nude) during nifaas period and discharges. Is it haraam. I heard…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online17 Aug 2014
Husband and wife viewing each other on Skype
My husband and myself see each other on Skype naked at times because we are both living in two different countries separately for now. We are both…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online14 Aug 2014
Being considerate to one's wife in regard to sexual relations
Is it wrong to have a high sex drive? I love having frequint sex with my wife. Sometimes I want sex for one time 3 nights in a row or very seldom…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online13 Aug 2014
Masturbation
We are a relatively young couple and happily married with two children. One thing missing in our marriage is intimacy and sex. Its been like this…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online13 Jun 2014
Homosexuality
Why do people fall in love with the same sex? Can you help someone who desires the same sex?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online31 May 2014
Spouses bathing together
Can I see my wifes body? Is it allowed to have bath at the same time in the bathroom?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online28 May 2014
Homosexuality
My question is that I am a homosexual man and I know that it will be very hard for me to fulfil my wife's rights if I ever get married. Is marriage…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online11 May 2014
Time for intercourse
When should one have intercourse, should it be in the first portion of the night or at tahajjud time?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online11 May 2014
Is there any specific date in the month that one should not have relations with one's wife?
Is there any specific date mentioned in sahih hadith according to the lunar month that intercourse should not be done and if mentioned then please…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online23 Apr 2014
Homosexuality
I am gay man and don't know how to handle this situation with my religion. I am not sexually attracted to women and wanted to know if there is a way…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Apr 2014
Oral sex
Is oral sex allowed in Islam?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Apr 2014
Dressing up for the husband in the bedroom
Is it permissible for a husband and wife to not have their satar completely covered for each other in the privacy of their home or bedroom? For…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Apr 2014
Masturbation
Can a wife and husband masturbate each other while working away and far from each other over the phone?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Apr 2014
Marital intimacy
Is pleasuring the private part via tongue, hand classed as zinna/fornication? Is it punishable by hadd? How can one hope for forgiveness for such a…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Mar 2014
Husband experiencing problems being intimate
I am married for one and half years. I have been blessed with a baby girl Alhamdu liallah. My husband has erection problems. We hardly have…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
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