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Character & Manners
2,370 fatawa from 6 South African Darul Iftas on Character & Manners, part of Social, Media & Ethics. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
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Character & Manners fatawa — page 26 of 60
- Ask Imaam1 Jan 2012
Ahsanul Qasas (beautiful incidents) from the lives of our pious predecessors no.2
Malfooz: The benefit of the book: Mahaasine Islam
- Ask Imaam26 Dec 2011
Am I being affected by waswasa or do I have ikhlas in the good deeds I perform?
I have serious question...May be I am being disturbed by waswasas but I really need an advice...Whenever I am doing something e.g.,am taking my…
Mawlana Sohail ibn Arif - Ask Imaam2 Dec 2011
Our family has broken apart, what is your advice?
Salam, There are a few issues that my family is going through. I am not sure what to do or what we should do. In these two past years: My stepmother…
Mawlana Mohammed Patel - Ask Imaam16 Nov 2011
How can I help my father attain true guidance?
Assalāmualaikum. My father is a Muslim while my mother is not. I myself decided to “officially” become a Muslim about four years ago. Before this, I…
Mawlana Abdul Azeem bin Abdur Rahman - Ask Imaam15 Nov 2011
What should I do to resolve my marital life?
I got married 2 years back in aurangabad, currently I have been staying with my father for the past month. Sir since the time I got married for the…
Mawlana Ali bin Cassim - Ask Imaam15 Nov 2011
I am in a relationship with a man what should I do?
I have a complicated situation. I am in love with a Muslim man who is Palestinian. I am Bengali but also Muslim. He is 21 I am 20. We have been in…
Mawlana Ali bin Cassim - Ask Imaam11 Nov 2011
Is it permissible to use immoral language for nafs and shaytān ?
Assalamualaikum. Is it permissible to use bad words for nafs and shaiyān? I get bad thoughts of others and I direct that to my nafs and shaitān.
Mawlana Abdul Azeem bin Abdur Rahman - Ask Imaam10 Nov 2011
How do I fulfill my mother’s rights as well as my wife’s?
Assalamualaikum. Yesterday I had a fight with my wife because she tries to control my communication with my parents. She told me not to give my cell…
Mawlana Abdul Azeem bin Abdur Rahman - Ask Imaam10 Nov 2011
How do I deal with my family problems?
Hope you are fine sir. I’m in a social problem which a couple of sisters in Islam face. My mother in law has stressed me out since the day I got…
Mawlana Ali bin Cassim - Ask Imaam10 Nov 2011
Please guide me. I think my Wife is speaking to another man.
I’m working in Middle East and had plans to go to UK on immigration; I seek your guidance in the light of Islam in my life’s most important issue, I…
Mawlana Ali bin Cassim - Ask Imaam7 Nov 2011
Should I wear my kurta to work?
As time has progressed I have come more in touch with my deen. This has created a situation for me at work where I am treated and assessed firstly…
- Ask Imaam29 Oct 2011
What is the correct way of saying Assalāmualaikum? Is it Wajib to reply to those who don’t say it correctly?
I have a question regarding the Salām. Can you please advise me on the correct way and words to greet (Assalāmualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa…
Mawlana Abdul Hannan Nizami - Ask Imaam28 Oct 2011
I recently got married and now my husband’s behaviour is changing?
I recently got married in 2009. I was happy. After awhile something happened to my husband. His temper changed. It seems he has a dual policy in his…
Mawlana Faraz Ibn Adam - Ask Imaam26 Oct 2011
Is it a requirement to live with in-laws?
Is it a requirement to live with in-laws? My husband and I are from different cultures, we are being confronted with the possibility of his sister…
Mawlana Mohammed Patel - Ask Imaam18 Oct 2011
Cure for masturbation.
I am a 20 year old man and. Sometimes I used to get excited and in the excitement I used to force my private part against the bed or surface with my…
- Ask Imaam13 Oct 2011
I am experiencing marital disputes and physical abuse. I cannot take it anymore and now I am considering divorce. Please advise me.
I have two questions. Please give me your suggestions. 1) I had an argument with my husband and he kicked me in my lower abdomen. This has happened…
Mawlana Faraz Ibn Adam - Ask Imaam10 Oct 2011
Advice on marriage and problems with masturbation
Assalamualaikum Mufti sahib I'm in a troublesome situation, I hope you could give me some advice and help me inshallah. I am 26years old and my…
Mawlana Ali bin Cassim - Ask Imaam12 Aug 2011
I have been trying so hard to rid of this bad act for so long. I really want to change myself and return to good health and be a better person, What can i do and how can i change my life around?
Assalamualaikum I have a serious problem. I have been reading your answers with regards to masturbation. I have been trying so hard to rid of this…
Mufti Ishaaq E. Moosa - Ask Imaam7 Jul 2011
My fiance came back from the holiday she revealed to me that she regrets making a big mistake. She told me that she got drunk and committed zina with the guy. What do I do?
I have a very big problem right now and I need help. I am engaged to this girl who I openly trusted with all my heart I love her so much. She…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam7 Jul 2011
What should I do know? I really love her madly I am not able to forget her
I am a 25 muslim boy in love with a 22 year hindu girl for past 3 years. We love each other a lot. When we proposed each other I clearly mentioned…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam7 Jul 2011
He asked me to severe all my family ties and marry him if I truly love him. I do sincerely love him, but I know that it is not right to break family ties and it is forbidden in Islam. Kindly advise
Asslamu alaikum, I have been in a relationship for the past five years. We both are from different cultures. He is a Pakistani and I am a Pacific…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam7 Jul 2011
1. Can i go to jihad to get shaheed because i cant take the burden of my life anymore? 2. Can i marry without telling the women that i have vitiligo ?
I am a 30 year old single male. By profession I am a doctor. Can i go to jihad to get shaheed because i cant take the burden of my life anymore, i…
- Ask Imaam8 Jun 2011
My parents dont get along and my dad is involved in a Haraam relationship
I hope you are well and in the best of states. My Parents do not get a long at all. My Father does not care much about the happenings in the family…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam5 Jun 2011
Is it Islamic for a muslim woman to rain curses or abuse her husband whenever they have argument?
Is it Islamic for a muslim woman to rain curses or abuse her husband whenever they have argument? though the cause of the argument was injustice…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam5 Jun 2011
I was madly in love with him then i came to know of his bad past
I got nikaahed to a person 4 years back , and I eventually started loving him madly…… My departure was supposed to happen in 5 or 6 months, and I…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam26 May 2011
I have a question about my children. When a child is on punishment, , should the child be allowed to have extra things like dessert, candy, or treats?
Salaam Alakium, I have a question about my children. When a child is on punishment (like grounded for getting in trouble at school for bad behaviour…
Muftī Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam11 May 2011
I am ashamed of myself and in state what to do or what not. I have done many a time Istakhara but have not got any reply infact the night when i read salat-i-istakhara i sleep so soundly that i dont even now when it is morning.
I am ashamed of myself and in state what to do or what not. I have done many a time Istakhara but have not got any reply infact the night when i…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam9 May 2011
My daughter is in a relationship with an English boy and i threatened her i will kill her
My daughter has just turned 18 yrs and left home 4 weeks ago as I found out she had a english boyfriend and has been drinking alcohol, I threatened…
Muftī Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam4 May 2011
I am sunni Muslim loving a Non Muslim Brahmin girl, We loved past four years, our love start from our college.I feel guilty I thinks I lost her life and happiness what thauba I have to do to come out from this ghunaa please help me.
I am sunni Muslim loving a Non Muslim Brahmin girl, We loved past four years, our love start from our college , I loved her very much like a mad she…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam2 May 2011
My husband is loving and caring, but when it comes to the topic of salah he intentionally neglects it. And if I keep on advising him on salah and remind him he get angry about it.
My husband is loving and caring, but when it comes to the topic of salah he intentionally neglects it. And if I keep on advising him on salah and…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam2 May 2011
I committed Zina and i feel very about what i did
Assalamou alykoum wa rahmtou allah tala wa barakatouh. Borther/Sister/Saydi al imam, I have a question to ask you if you will have some time to read…
Sister Fadila - Ask Imaam21 Apr 2011
I got married before 5 yrs with a girl of my choice who belonged to my mother’s relative.
I got married before 5 yrs with a girl of my choice who belonged to my mother’s relative. However my mother was not in favor of the marriage at that…
Muftī Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam19 Jan 2011
I gave bai'ah (pledge) to a Shaykh online, is it valid? Can I take it again?
I'm 17 years old and many months ago I took bay'at online. I want to become an alim first and then I want to give bay'at to a saint. My question is…
Ml. Sohail Bengali - Ask Imaam27 Oct 2010
As Salamu alai kum, Janab Mufti Ebrahim Desai sahab many times i ask the questions but…
As Salamu alai kum, Janab Mufti Ebrahim Desai sahab many times i ask the questions but there was no response. please give response as early as…
- Ask Imaam25 Oct 2010
Breastfeeding is harmful for the mother and the unborn child in our situation. Should we wean off the breastfeeding child or have an abortion?
My wife is 8 weeks pregnant and is breastfeeding our 14-month child. She wants to continue breastfeeding, but she is unable to take adequate amount…
Muftī Abrar Mirza - Ask Imaam1 Oct 2010
I married an year ago, but I got in a serious problem when I knew that my little brother and my wife was involved in zina, I want to give divorce to her and cut off every kind of relation with my bro, I am doing right? and also please guide me if there is a relexation for them or Can I forgive them?
I married an year ago, but I got in a serious problem when I knew that my little brother and my wife was involved in zina, I want to give divorce to…
Ml. Sohail Bengali - Ask Imaam1 Oct 2010
I was forced to marry her and i didnt like her appearance
I got married 6 years back. This marriage was organized by my parents against my wishes Before marriage the engagement took time of 7 years and I…
Ml. Abduz Zaman - Ask Imaam28 Sep 2010
Disclaimer : All Sexual Etiquettes related question are suspended After a Mashwarah it has been decided that We will not be answering any more sexual oriented question. We have placed a complete book on Masturbation in our books section. Kindly read through that book at : http://www.al-inaam.com/Books/Masturbation.pdf
I have a very urgent question. Today I regretfully watched pornography and masturbated. Whilst committing this henious act the thought occurred to…
- Ask Imaam8 Sep 2010
Please can you inform me as to the correct method of cutting zulfa hair. Is it correct to just cut the hair at the bottom at the back? Or is it more correct to part the hair, let all the hair
Please can you inform me as to the correct method of cutting zulfa hair. Is it correct to just cut the hair at the bottom at the back? Or is it more…
- Ask Imaam12 Aug 2010
I am a divorced woman of 40 years old. My childhood friend wants to marry me
salam, i am a woman in my 40s living in canada. when a childhood friend of mine from pakistan found out that i had been divorced, he told me that he…
Ml. Abdur Rahman Shareef
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