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Character & Manners

2,370 fatawa from 6 South African Darul Iftas on Character & Manners, part of Social, Media & Ethics. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.

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Character & Manners fatawa — page 27 of 60

  1. Ask Imaam29 Jun 2010

    If wife does not want to have sex (because she feels pain in her private parts and also she is tired looking-after her small baby), then is it permissable for the husband to masturbate?

    If wife does not want to have sex (because she feels pain in her private parts and also she is tired looking-after her small baby), then is it…

    Ml. Ebrahim Desai
  2. Ask Imaam20 Jun 2010

    I just want to know that i had anal sex with my wife but she is a non Muslim and i am Muslim boy ... tell me what should i do now because i am really worried about that ... and i

    I just want to know that i had anal sex with my wife but she is a non Muslim and i am Muslim boy ... tell me what should i do now because i am…

    Ml. Zakariyya bin Ahmed
  3. Ask Imaam20 Jun 2010

    I wanted to know about the dhikr ‘La Hawla wa La Quwwata Illa Billah’ ...

    I wanted to know about the dhikr ‘La Hawla wa La Quwwata Illa Billah’ لَا حَوْلَ وَلَا قُوَّةَ اِلَّا بِالله 1) What is the full meaning of “La…

    Ml. Sohail Bengali
  4. Ask Imaam10 Jun 2010

    What is the best way to deal with Anger and Waswasas?

    What is the best way to deal with Anger and Waswasas?

    Ml. Zeyad Danka
  5. Ask Imaam1 Jun 2010

    Could you Please stress the importance of maintaining and severing of Family Ties, with a few quotes and examples.

    Could you Please stress the importance of maintaining and severing of Family Ties, with a few quotes and examples.

    Ml. Muhammed Sindhi
  6. Ask Imaam4 May 2010

    I am going through a difficult time whereby a male is harassing me

    I am going through a difficult time whereby a male is harassing me, we had a relationship when I was younger but that is finished now and I have…

    Social Dept
  7. Ask Imaam25 Apr 2010

    I would like to know the proper etiquettes of hugging another Muslim. When greeting someone, are you suppose to hug first towards your left then right then left, or right left right?

    I would like to know the proper etiquettes of hugging another Muslim. When greeting someone, are you suppose to hug first towards your left then…

    Ml. Abdur Rahman Shareef
  8. Ask Imaam23 Apr 2010

    i'm a first yerar medical student. as part of our studies, we are required to do anatomy which includes dissection of human bodies. i would like to know if this is permissible and if there is any particular etiquette that is to be followed.

    i'm a first yerar medical student. as part of our studies, we are required to do anatomy which includes dissection of human bodies. i would like to…

  9. Ask Imaam22 Apr 2010

    Being the eldest son after my dad passed away i try to control my sister who is always doing wrong

    my father past away 3 years ago and being elder son i have all the responsibility to talkcare of my 2sisters and 2 brothers and my mum ..1 of my…

    Ml. Sohail Bengali
  10. Ask Imaam29 Mar 2010

    I was kind of with this guy for 5 years and now he’s gone off and getting married to another girl who turns out to be my own friend....

    I’m in a dilemma. I was kind of with this guy for 5 years and now he’s gone off and getting married to another girl who turns out to be my own…

    Ml. Luqman Hansrot
  11. Ask Imaam4 Mar 2010

    I needed advice in how to deal with myself and a situation. I had a cousin who was living with us for a little while and things ended up going wrong.

    I needed advice in how to deal with myself and a situation. I had a cousin who was living with us for a little while and things ended up going…

    Ml. Ebrahim Desai
  12. Ask Imaam1 Mar 2010

    I've been married for just over a year now and living with my in-laws as my husband doesn't want to leave them. So i have been trying to adjust in the family, everything is ....

    I've been married for just over a year now and living with my in-laws as my husband doesn't want to leave them. So i have been trying to adjust in…

    Social Dept
  13. Ask Imaam1 Mar 2010

    I am an Indian, my husband is a Pakistani, and we both reside in the USA. I converted into Islam from Hinduism, and have been practicing it faithfully, although I confess ...Can you please advice me on how I can make my marriage better, and also what I can do to make Islam a bigger part of our lives?

    I am an Indian, my husband is a Pakistani, and we both reside in the USA. I converted into Islam from Hinduism, and have been practicing it…

    Social Dept
  14. Ask Imaam16 Feb 2010

    I married a Muslim guy and converted but he was cheating on me

    i'm originally from Ukraine, came to USA, met a muslim guy, change religion and got married. but he was cheating on me a lot, specially the last…

    Social Dept
  15. Ask Imaam15 Feb 2010

    I'm a 22yr old B.TECH male student from INDIA. In my college there are girls as well as boys. There are male teachers as well as female teachers . Almost all female teachers and girls wear dresses revealing their awrath.

    I'm a 22yr old B.TECH male student from INDIA. In my college there are girls as well as boys. There are male teachers as well as female teachers .…

    Ml. Faizal Riza
  16. Ask Imaam14 Feb 2010

    I have two wives, first is in UK who I am living with and second is in India who I visit once a year and live with her for 4 to 5 weeks. And both of them does not know that I am married twice.

    My question is about justice between two wives. I have two wives, first is in UK who I am living with and second is in India who I visit once a year…

    Ml. Ebrahim Desai
  17. Ask Imaam4 Feb 2010

    I am a thirteen year old muslim girl. I grew up in New York, and am still living here. My parents never had the time nor money to teach me Arabic, so I know pretty much nothing...

    I am a thirteen year old muslim girl. I grew up in New York, and am still living here. My parents never had the time nor money to teach me Arabic,…

    Social Dept
  18. Ask Imaam1 Feb 2010

    Why are things not working out although i completely dedicate my life for Deen?

    im an individual who is curious about how things are not working out at all after dedicating my life fully to religion. before we had any religious…

    Ml. Musa Sugapong
  19. Ask Imaam28 Jan 2010

    What does Islam say about women, who have been into adultery with guys? Should I accept her and send my elders to her to proceed further....

    I had always restricted myself for being into a physical relationship with any women in order to strictly follow my religion. I have been into a…

    Ml. Musa Sugapong
  20. Ask Imaam25 Jan 2010

    I am 16 years old. I dont listen to my ymum when she tells me to pray etc

    im 16 years old. my mother is always telling me to pray but i never do. im always going out with my friends and not listening to her. i know what im…

    Ml. Ebrahim Desai
  21. Ask Imaam21 Oct 2009

    I m a girl(20years). i had one younger sis(18years) and brother(12years). my mom is principle.she is 45years old. she is principle in secondry school....my father love my mom& blindely trust on her. four months before i found that my mom in relatio with one man(50years).he is mom's school's trusty and...

    I m a girl. i had one younger sis and brother. my mom is principle.she is 45years old. she is principle in secondry school. my father lives abroad.…

    Social Dept
  22. Ask Imaam7 Sep 2009

    Im single and always suffering in life

    iam a single muslim,being born in muslim family i have commited big sin in my life,i dont know what to do,iam weeping all day and night for this,i…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  23. Ask Imaam21 Aug 2009

    I have beaten wife for the first time and my also heat me back as well. I am really feeling guilty for this. I have asked pardon to my wife for forgiveness and she asked for forgiveness to me as well...

    I have beaten wife for the first time and my also heat me back as well. I am really feeling guilty for this. I have asked pardon to my wife for…

    Ml. Luqman Hansrot
  24. Ask Imaam16 Aug 2009

    My concern is that " Wife of one of my very near relative was expecting .. everything was going normal .. in 14th weeks of pregnancy they came to know during an...

    My concern is that " Wife of one of my very near relative was expecting .. everything was going normal .. in 14th weeks of pregnancy they came to…

    Social Dept
  25. Ask Imaam16 Aug 2009

    I've been married for 12 yrs. If for some reasons, ive not been able to marry the person whom i love,and i am and will always love him only. According to what i've heard about

    I've been married for 12 yrs. If for some reasons, ive not been able to marry the person whom i love,and i am and will always love him only.…

    Ml. Sajid bin Shabbir
  26. Ask Imaam10 Aug 2009

    I am a 26 year old female who was due to get married in May 2008, The wedding was cancelled 2 weeks before the time. I am obviously distraught and sad due to the fact that he...

    I am a 26 year old female who was due to get married in May 2008, The wedding was cancelled 2 weeks before the time. I am obviously distraught and…

    Social Dept
  27. Ask Imaam5 Aug 2009

    Some Muslims use profanity a lot and see nothing wrong with it. I try to tell them that that is the way of the bible, but they don't listen. On the other hand, when Hadith is...

    Some Muslims use profanity a lot and see nothing wrong with it. I try to tell them that that is the way of the bible, but they don't listen. On the…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  28. Ask Imaam29 Jul 2009

    1) I am asking this question on behalf of my friend. Its regarding the matter of zina. He is a muslim and had a muslim girlfirend.... 2) I stay with my brother and sister in law. if they do not pray and not do things according to sharia is it ok to tell my parents about their behaviuor and ask them(my parents) to

    1) I am asking this question on behalf of my friend. Its regarding the matter of zina. He is a muslim and had a muslim girlfirend. They used to have…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  29. Ask Imaam22 Jul 2009

    Wearing shirt to the workplace

    ASAK well i want toknow whether men could wear pant shirt to workplace because my husband is a very strong faith muslim and refused to wear pant…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  30. Ask Imaam17 Jul 2009

    Some Questions one Women doing Bayah

    1)How can a women take bayt? 2)Does she need the permission of her husband/father. 3)In what way can she communicate with Sheikh? 4)Can she talk to…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  31. Ask Imaam16 Jul 2009

    I am a married for 25 year and I have 5 siblings. Recently I found out my husband is cheating on the internet and he love looking at young girl who are almost the age of my daughters. When I approach him about that issue; he is say that a man is allowed to have two wives. ...

    Question about my daughter and my husband who are in a bad relationship? I am a married for 25 year and I have 5 siblings. Recently I found out my…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  32. Ask Imaam29 Jun 2009

    My friend asked me to show him my private parts on the internet

    My question is that a few days one of my friend forced me to show him my private part. i was reluctant and told him that i cant do that but he…

    Ml. Abrar Mirza
  33. Ask Imaam21 Jun 2009

    She lied to me about how much money she has

    My wife is lier with me i send her money but when i ask her how much do you have balance now she has axactly 5000/ but she told me 1000 i want know…

    Ml. Ebrahim Desai
  34. Ask Imaam7 Jun 2009

    What if no one marries her because she is ugly? why is she being punished this way?

    My friend and I were eating and he said to me that such and such thing has alcohol. it did but I didn’t believe him and so i took some. now i feel…

    Social Dept
  35. Ask Imaam26 May 2009

    I am a 47yr old Australian christian woman & have a 24yr old Pakistani Muslim male that is in love with me & wants to marry me.We have been seeing each other for nearly a,,,

    I am a 47yr old Australian christian woman & have a 24yr old Pakistani Muslim male that is in love with me & wants to marry me.We have been seeing…

    Ml. Faizal Riza
  36. Ask Imaam25 May 2009

    Is it permissible for two friends along with their spouses to go eating out together and to sit at one table across one another while partaking of the meal, that is both the men along with both the women all at one table?

    Is it permissible for two friends along with their spouses to go eating out together and to sit at one table across one another while partaking of…

    Ml. Asif Umar
  37. Ask Imaam25 May 2009

    Brother, I was readiing you reply on Tassauf in question 17519, I have just a basic question in this regard. Does what you mentioning about tariqah etc, has any authentic proof..

    Brother, I was readiing you reply on Tassauf in question 17519, I have just a basic question in this regard. Does what you mentioning about tariqah…

    Ml. Ismail Moosa
  38. Ask Imaam13 May 2009

    1. Is my Bayt valid as i had doubts regarding my intentions at that time and even now ... 2. Is it possible to change ones spiritual guide (after bayat is taken) to someone else whom one can easily contact 3. Can I take a second bayat online from Mufti Ebrahim Desai whom I can contact through email as well

    Asalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullahi-wa-barakatuhu, A few weeks back I visited a masjid and attended a gathering of dars of a famous scholar (I do not…

    Ml. Yusuf bin Yaqub
  39. Ask Imaam10 May 2009

    I got married to a tableegh brother few yrs back.But his family caused me a lot of stress because I did not get enough dowry in my wedding,as are wedding was held back home...

    I got married to a tableegh brother few yrs back.But his family caused me a lot of stress because I did not get enough dowry in my wedding,as are…

    Social Dept
  40. Ask Imaam23 Apr 2009

    I wrote a letter pointing out my teachers mistakes. Was i correct?

    yesterday my teacher made some mistake while checkingmy work in school. So i wrote a letter to her and pointed her mistakes.Am i justified?

    Ml. Mohammed Moola

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