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Can I shake hands with the opposite gender?
33 fatawa in the archive answer questions on this, from 5 South African Darul Iftas (Mufti Online, AskImam, Jamiat KZN, Azaadville, Ibn Masood). Below, each Darul Ifta’s answer is quoted word for word from the opening of one of its fatawa.
Based on the fatawa linked below. Please read the sources and double-check with a Darul Ifta for your situation.
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What the Darul Iftas say
“If you are referring to shaking your mother in law's hands, then it is permissible as she is your mahram. However, on account of the abundant fitnah prevalent nowadays, it is better for the mother in law and son in law or father in law and daughter in law not to shake hands or hug, but merely make salaam verbally.”
“It is not permissible for a male to shake hands with a non-Mahram female and vice versa. Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) has prohibited this and condemned this with very strong words:”
“To greet and make Musaafahah (shake hands with each other) is established from Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihi Wasallam. In fact, Hadrat Abu Zarr Radiallahu Anhu was asked, “Would Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihi Wasallam shake hands with you (the Sahaabah) when you met him?” He replied, “Every time I met him, he shook hands with me.””
“Handshaking when greeting a person is termed ‘Muṣāfaḥah’. It is Sunnah to make Muṣāfaḥah when greeting a person.”
Quotes are the opening words of each answer as published; the full answer, its conditions and references are on the fatwa page. Answers depend on the exact details of each question.
Read the fatawa
- Masaafahah (Shaking Hands) And Muaanaqah (Hugging) On The Day Of Eid Azaadville · 29 Mar 2025
- Father in law shaking hands with his daughter in law or kissing her hand Mufti Online · 12 Oct 2024
- Shaking hands with each other Ibn Masood · 1 Mar 2023
- Shaking hands during the Ebola plague and their attitude of socializing in the Covid-19 plague AskImam · 14 Jan 2021
- Shaking hands with one’s son in law Jamiat KZN · 27 Oct 2017
- Shaking Hands And Hugging After The Eid Salaah Azaadville · 28 Mar 2025
- Shaking hands with one's mother in law Mufti Online · 23 Dec 2023
- Shaking hands with elderly Ghair Mahram women Ibn Masood · 29 Sep 2022
- Shaking hands with son in law - Is this permissible? AskImam · 7 Jun 2020
- Shaking hands with females? Jamiat KZN · 18 Feb 2013
- Musafaha (Shaking Hands) On The Day Of Eid Azaadville · 9 Apr 2024
- Male shaking hands with a non-mahram woman Mufti Online · 11 May 2022
- May I forsake the Hijab and shake hands with the opposite gender if it is a traditional custom? AskImam · 12 Feb 2015
- Shaking hands with males and females Jamiat KZN · 29 Oct 2010
- What is the correct way of handshaking when greeting? AskImam · 5 Dec 2012
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