Marriage · Subtopic
Intimacy & Marital Relations
703 fatawa from 6 South African Darul Iftas on Intimacy & Marital Relations, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Intimacy & Marital Relations fatawa — page 15 of 18
- Mufti Online13 Oct 2012
Couple looking at the private parts of each other
Is a major sin for a couple to look at the private parts of each other?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online13 Oct 2012
Wife rubbing the private part of the husband during foreplay
If a wife rubs the private part of the husband, during foreplay or otherwise, is this also considered as masturbation, making it impermissible?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online13 Oct 2012
Husband licking the clitoris of the wife
Is it permissible for the husband to lick the clitoris (not the Vagina) of the wife when it’s dry and clean, during foreplay?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online13 Oct 2012
Husband & wife rubbing their private parts against one another with their clothes on during the wife's menses
If a wife is on her menses is it permissible for a wife & husband to rub their private parts against one another with their clothes on. If not, and…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online11 Oct 2012
Intercourse in the bathroom
I was shocked after reading this fatwa from a whabbi site, can you please validate and answer this question: Is it permissible for a man to have…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online6 Oct 2012
Oral sex
Is it permissible for a wife to put her husband’s penis in her mouth? If a wife swallows sperms how can she purify herself because sperms are napaak?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online6 Oct 2012
Touching the wife’s body between the navel and knee during her menses
Is it permissible for the husband to rub, with his fingers, the wife’s vagina until she reaches her orgasm? Can he do this while she is in menses?…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online6 Oct 2012
Looking at each other’s private parts
Is it sinful for a husband and wife to look at each other’s private parts?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online6 Oct 2012
One ends up getting completely naked during foreplay
During foreplay, one ends up getting completely naked i.e. the bed sheet shifts, will the couple be sinful?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online4 Oct 2012
Anal sex
Can a man do sexual intercourse with his wife from her back side (i.e anal sex) ? If not, then if a person ever do so then what is its compensation?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online25 Sep 2012
How often does the husband have to fulfill the wife's conjugal rights?
How often does the husband have to fulfill the wife's conjugal rights.What if the wife wants it to be fulfilled every night?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online19 Sep 2012
Oral sex
I understand that oral sex is makrooh. What does this mean? Will I be punished if I engage in this activity? Is it permissable to kiss or lick…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online18 Sep 2012
Oral sex
I apologise for the nature of my question. I understand the fatwa relating to oral sex however during relations with my wife is it permissible to…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online17 Sep 2012
Touching one's wife during her Haidh
During one's period, is the husband allowed to touch his wife from the belly button till her knees on her clothes? If not, can he at least hug her?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online16 Sep 2012
Taking pleasure from one's wife while she is asleep
Is it permissible to use one's wife's body to derive sexual satisfaction, whilst she is asleep and therefore unaware? I derived sexual pleasure in…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Ask Imaam31 Jul 2012
Intimacy with pregnant wife; family planning.
Question # 1. Can Husband do sex with his wife while she in last three months of Pregnancy. Question # 2: for family palnning can condom can be used…
Mufti Faisal bin Abdul Hameed - Mufti Online15 May 2012
Masturbating Oneself During Foreplay
Please advise wether it is permissible if a man or woman masturbates himself/herself whilst they are both having foreplay?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online15 May 2012
Husband Fondling his wife in the State of Haidh
Is it permissible for a man to insert his finger in his wifes vagina while she is in the state of haidh?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online8 May 2012
Using a Sheath during Intercourse
I am aware that oral sex is Makrooh. I have recently come across an article(western health website) stating that impurites from private organs could…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online25 Apr 2012
Intercourse after haidh before making ghusal
Once my wife’s periods finished, we had sexual intercourse before she could take ghusal (bath), really we fear azaab (punishment) of Allah Subhanu…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online18 Apr 2012
False Beliefs Regarding Conjugal Relations
I have read that conjugal relationship should be done to the bare minimal to the extent that it should be only once in a lifetime. Also mentioned…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online18 Apr 2012
Conjugal Relations After Bleeding of Haidh Stops
A woman experiences her menses for an indefinite amount every cycle, after e.g. 7 days her bleeding stops. She performs Salaah etc. However at times…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Mar 2012
Swallowing the Mazi of One's Spouse
Is it allowed for the husband to swallow the "mazi" of his wife, and the wife to swallow the "mazi" of her husband?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online5 Mar 2012
Oral Sex
To what extent oral sex is allowed in Shariah?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Ask Imaam13 Oct 2011
Does a divorce take place if the husband and wife have not had intimate relations for 5 years?
My friend has 3 children and for nearly 5 years she has no relationship with her husband. They live in the same house for the sake of the children.…
Mawlana Faraz Ibn Adam - Ask Imaam26 May 2011
I am in a relationship with my cousin sister and we both respect our families. So according to islam is it legal for me to marry her? If my family is against this marriage what should I do?
I am in a relationship with my cousin sister and we both respect our families. So according to islam is it legal for me to marry her? If my family…
Muftī Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam28 Apr 2011
I want to grow my beard as our beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) commanded us. But my wife refuses to let me. The reason is that I am unable to have sexual intercourse with her. This is because of
Sorry for re-sending my question as I am afraid I did not paste the entire question when I sent it the first time. In case I didn't paste the whole…
Muftī Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam24 May 2010
I made love to my husband during menses a few times. I know that its forbidden to hav sexual intercourse during menstruation. Do i have to pay a kuffarah for doing that? And ask Allah foir forgiveness.
I made love to my husband during menses a few times. I know that its forbidden to hav sexual intercourse during menstruation. Do i have to pay a…
Ml. Abduz Zaman - Ask Imaam2 Jul 2009
Argument took place before Jummah over cloths and food. After that wife made intention not to spend the little free time (3-4 hours) to be intimate and rather use that to cook and clean cloths.
Argument took place before Jummah over cloths and food. After that wife made intention not to spend the little free time (3-4 hours) to be intimate…
Ml. Abrar Mirza - Ask Imaam6 Mar 2009
My question is if doctor forbid husband to avoid intimacy with wife for few months then can husband get his satisfaction by just...
My question is if doctor forbid husband to avoid intimacy with wife for few months then can husband get his satisfaction by just rubb his sex organ…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam2 Mar 2009
Is it allowed to be intimate with my wife in the morning hours?
My questions is as follows. 1. I work at night and get only 1 day off, during the week can I have intimacy with my wife? say like in the morning…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam9 Feb 2009
We became intimate after he gave me a divorce
Asalamo alykum, I am divorced only one time a month ago via email when i was in my parents house in pakistan. now days, i am in kuwait in my…
Ml. Abrar Mirza - Ask Imaam7 Jan 2009
I want to know that is our marriage relationship is still valid or not?
The following things were happening in my life within a few days: 1. One of my family member say me, that she(my wife) say something like: she kill…
Ml. Yusuf bin Yaqub - Ask Imaam5 Dec 2008
I am a Buddhist and the woman I am in love with is Muslim. We've been in this relationship for more than 3 years and we believe our relationship is something real special,
Anyways, I am a Buddhist and the woman I am in love with is Muslim. We've been in this relationship for more than 3 years and we believe our…
- Ask Imaam3 Nov 2008
If a person wants to go for 2nd marriage with the commitment that he will do justice with his both wives according to religion. That person has more sexual desires and not satisfied with one wife,
If a person wants to go for 2nd marriage with the commitment that he will do justice with his both wives according to religion. That person has more…
Ml. Asif Umar - Ask Imaam16 Oct 2008
Can A Muslim Man Have a intimacy with a girl before marriage to show her that he love her.If NO can He Kiss her.And If no can he talk to her about the marriage and can he say that I LOVE YOU.
(1)Can A Muslim Man Have a sex with a girl before marriage to show her that he love her.If NO can He Kiss her.And If no can he talk to her about the…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam12 Oct 2008
I am a new convert to Islam, just over a month and I have a question regarding my relationship and soon to be marriage....So my question is is it ok under these circumstances for me to marry this wonderful man?
This requires an explanation so I apologize in advance for the length. I am a new convert to Islam, just over a month and I have a question…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam26 Jun 2008
Can a woman have relations with her husband during her pregnancy period?
My question is “Can a woman have relations with her husband during her pregnancy period?” Please advise in light of Islam and health point of view.
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam26 Feb 2008
There is a couple who have been married and gone to haj. But before the marriagethey were not good muslimsand they were having relations...
There is a couple who have been married and gone to haj. But before the marriagethey were not good muslimsand they were having relation ship before…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam11 Aug 2007
I want to know which parts of a wife's body can a husband kiss and which parts of a husband's body can a wife kiss. Can they even kiss their each other's private parts and feet ?
I want to know which parts of a wife's body can a husband kiss and which parts of a husband's body can a wife kiss. Can they even kiss their each…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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