Marriage · Subtopic
Intimacy & Marital Relations
703 fatawa from 6 South African Darul Iftas on Intimacy & Marital Relations, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Intimacy & Marital Relations fatawa — page 14 of 18
- Mufti Online3 Sep 2013
Being intimate with one's wife
I need to know that what is the limits and ruling of Islam about the the use of tongue during intercross with wife. Please guide me in this regard.
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online31 Aug 2013
Remaining covered when being intimate with one's spouse
I am married for 13 years but I am not sure how to perform the wifes needs in bed according to Islam. I have been doing it fully naked inside the…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online31 Aug 2013
Being intimate with one's wife
I wanted to ask you two questions about the intercourse between husband and wife. Can husband and wife have intercourse in light? Can husband and…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online27 Aug 2013
Husband forcing the wife to have relations in her menses
My friend is married and her husband is troubling her to have sexual intercourse in her periods. Please advise.
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online27 Aug 2013
Maintaining good relations with two mother in laws
I am 32 years old and I am married with 2 kids. My father in law and mother in law are divorced. After the divorce my father in law remarried. His…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online25 Aug 2013
Questions on intimate relations between husband and wife
If a women gets aroused while sitting with her husband and the vaginal area gets wet,but no intercourse takes place; does ghusl become fardh on the…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online20 Aug 2013
Keeping contact with a married woman
I am in love with one girl for the past 10 years. 5 years ago she got married to another person and she is not happy with her husband because he…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online19 Aug 2013
Being intimate with one's spouse on the nights of the two eids
Why may one not be intimate with ones spouse on the nights of the two eids? Why is it not allowed?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online19 Aug 2013
Touching one's wife between the navel and the knee while she is menstruating
Is it haraam for a husband to touch his wife between the navel and the knee while she is menstruating? My husband says its not haraam to touch, he…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online18 Aug 2013
Being intimate with one's wife in the state of haidh
The following are few questions regarding a woman in the state of haidh or janaabat: Can her husband fulfil his desires using her thighs? If not,…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online15 Aug 2013
Touching the wife between the navel and knees
Is it haraam for a husband to touch his wife between the navel and the knee while she is menstruating? My husband says its not haraam to touch, is…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Ask Imaam27 Jul 2013
Does a divorce take place if the husband and wife have not had intimate relations for 5 years?
My friend has 3 children with her husband but for approximately 5 years she hasn’t had intimate relations with her husband. They live in the same…
Mufti Faraz Ibn Adam al-Mahmudi - Ask Imaam12 Jul 2013
My wife is having an extra-marital relationship and wants me to divorce her. What should i do?
I had been married for few month but unfortunately my wife is having another relationship & seeking divorce to marry her boy friend. Personally I do…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Jamiat KZN7 Jun 2013
Pre-marital Relations
I’ve been told that premarital relationships are haram because they lead to premarital sex, and that makes sense in the old times, when…
- Mufti Online4 Jun 2013
Consulting the parents with regards to nikaah
My friend and I like each other and we want to make nikaah so that we can have a halaal relationship and not be boy friend and girlfriend. His…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online29 May 2013
Wife masturbating the husband
An old man is suffering from erectile disfuntion. No medical help works. When with his wife, can he mastubate to ease his desire?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online27 May 2013
Husband and wife spending time together during haidh
Unknowingly about menstrual, wife & husband spend time together. What does she have to do? Is it ok for her to make ghusul or she must make ghusul?…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online19 May 2013
Covering the area between the navel and the knee in the state of haidh
I have read in kitaabs that a woman in haiz must wear clothes that prevent transfer of body heat during relations with husband. Please can mufti…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online9 May 2013
Anal sex
Is it allowed to have sex with the wife from her back side without intercourse from the back side (just to rub the man sexual organ with the wife's…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online23 Apr 2013
Acting responsibly in a marital relationship
I am really concerned. I need advice before leave without telling my husband. We have had an argument last night about leaving the kids by his…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online22 Apr 2013
Having relations with one's wife on the following nights
I recently have received the information below, and I wanted to enquire about its authenticity. The author of IHYA states:- It is Makrooh to indulge…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online22 Apr 2013
Marrying my cousin
I am engaged to the daughter of the sister of my father. In my child hood, mother of my father used to put her breast nipple in my mouth, whenever I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online21 Apr 2013
Purda from foster relations
I have been adopted by my Paternal Uncle (fathers brother) due to him not having any children. My Uncles wife did breastfeed me, making her my…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Apr 2013
Can the children of two people who were involved in homosexual relations get married to one another?
Two men were involved in homosexual relations many years ago, now the son of one wants to marry the daughter of the other, is it permissible?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online14 Apr 2013
Marrying the daughter of a woman who breastfed one
A child drank milk from a woman. Later vomited it all out. Would it be haram for this boy to marry this womans daughter. The families are very close…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Ask Imaam1 Apr 2013
Does having intimate relations with one’s mother in law make one’s wife unlawful?
A person has been married since 16 years and has three daughters and a son. One or two years before marriage, his mother in law was intimating him…
Abdul Azīm bin Abdur Rahman - Mufti Online28 Mar 2013
Relations with ones wife in the state of haidh
I cohabited with my wife whilst she was in haidh, what is the shar'i ruling?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online9 Feb 2013
Communicating with the boy before nikaah
I met a boy and spoke to him for the purpose of marriage. It didn't take me long after that to decide that I would like to marry him. My parents did…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online18 Dec 2012
Oral sex
I want to know that if oral sex between husband and wife is allowed in islam or not?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Ask Imaam1 Dec 2012
Premarital relationship
I've been told that premartial relationships are haram because they lead to premarital sex, and that makes sense in the old times, when…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Mufti Online1 Dec 2012
Oral sex
Can husband and wife can do oral sex? I mean can they kiss on the specific parts of each other?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online1 Dec 2012
Oral sex
Can I put a condom on my husbands penis and suck him?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online1 Dec 2012
Ghusal after husband inserts his finger in wife's private part
If I put my finger im my wifes private part does she have to make a ghusl? Also I suffer from premature ejaculation can I mastubate myself release…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online19 Nov 2012
Engaging in sexual acts with one's brother
I wanted to ask you a question from my friend, when he was younger, he use to feel horny so he use to show his penis to his little brother and he…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online17 Nov 2012
Using a vibrator during foreplay
Is it permissible to use a vibrator during foreplay?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online14 Nov 2012
Deriving haraam pleasure from one's own body
I have received your email successfully, now there is another question from a brother, he wanted to ask that once 2-3 years before he put his own…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online12 Nov 2012
Husband and wife having relations whilst a child is sleeping on the same bed
Can husband and wife have relations if child e.g. six years old is sleeping on same bed?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online5 Nov 2012
Male and Female conversing with one another via email before nikah
Is it permissible for a male and female to converse with one another via email before nikah is performed. If the couple is proposed and the girl…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Ask Imaam27 Oct 2012
premarital relationship
Asalam o Alaikom Brother I have question about nikah that what Islam said about when you dont have nikah with a girl but your family members and the…
Ismail Desai - Mufti Online17 Oct 2012
Questions relating to intimacy with one's wife
I am a new muslim and am a bit confused about certain issues concerning intercourse with one's wife. I have read fatwas and talked to recognised…
Mufti Zakaria Makada
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