Marriage · Subtopic
Intimacy & Marital Relations
703 fatawa from 6 South African Darul Iftas on Intimacy & Marital Relations, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Intimacy & Marital Relations fatawa — page 16 of 18
- Ask Imaam13 Apr 2007
Is it obligatory for her to marry him and only him coz they had physical relationship?
As-Salaam-U-Alaikum... My friend(a girl) liked and started to love someone and they indulged in physical relationship(only once), she repents it and…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam12 Mar 2007
Istikhara whilst in a Haraam relationship
I am a muslim girl who has been in a relationship for some time now and we wish to get married to save ourselves from sin and that we really want to…
- Ask Imaam6 Dec 2006
I had unislamic relations with the guy i love,we wanted to ......
i had unislamic relations with the guy i love,we wanted to and still want to get married but due to my family circumstances we cannot marry now.My…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam17 Oct 2006
I recently met a girl over chat, we communicated our intentions early in the relationship that we want to get married and not date etc. We live in 2 different provinces hence we dont see each other but we keep in regular contact via. sms and phone.
As-salaamu-alaikum I recently met a girl over chat, we communicated our intentions early in the relationship that we want to get married and not…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam11 May 2006
really want to get married because I have strong feelings for sexual desire, and therefore want to enjoy sex in a halaal way
I really want to get married because I have strong feelings for sexual desire, and therefore want to enjoy sex in a halaal way. The problem is that…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam5 Apr 2006
compulsory for a wife to have sexual intercourse with her husband on their wedding night, ie the day before her walima.
I wanted to know whether it is compulsory for a wife to have sexual intercourse with her husband on their wedding night, ie the day before her…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam22 Dec 2005
I would like to know that if a man enters a women, and a few seconds later then pulls out, without ejaculation, as they no longer wish to continue, does this constitute sexual intercourse in Islam?
I would like to know that if a man enters a women, and a few seconds later then pulls out, without ejaculation, as they no longer wish to continue,…
Ml. E. Vawda - Ask Imaam30 Nov 2005
What is the fatwa about an unmarried christian man who had illegal sexual relations with another christian female but then embraces islam
What is the fatwa about an unmarried christian man who had illegal sexual relations with another christian female but then embraces islam.Will his…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam30 Nov 2005
Is it wrong for a gurl to marry a guy of her choice?? I know having a pre-marital relationship is wrong
Is it wrong for a gurl to marry a guy of her choice?? I know having a pre-marital relationship is wrong, n i have repented and am continuing to do…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam28 Nov 2005
regarding Nikaah. If you have in the past been involved in relationships and participated in haraam activities and now repent your actions and change your lifestyle to that of the approved Islamic Lifestyle
My question is regarding Nikaah. If you have in the past been involved in relationships and participated in haraam activities and now repent your…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam14 Nov 2005
What is the ruling for a Muslim living in the west and who was sexualy aroused during ramadan and he is not married. He finds nothing else and resorts to masturbation
What is the ruling for a Muslim living in the west and who was sexualy aroused during ramadan and he is not married. He finds nothing else and…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam16 Aug 2005
Please advise what are the rights of a husband over his wife and vice versa when it comes to sexual communion between the two?.
Please advise what are the rights of a husband over his wife and vice versa when it comes to sexual communion between the two?.How long can a wife…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam4 Aug 2005
private question
First, I was In need of money to cover some situations that I went through. I over worked my self at my job. It happened to meet a highly educated…
Ml. Zakariyah Desai - Ask Imaam2 Aug 2005
problem with husband - private
I have been married to my husband for almost three years now and we have a beautiful baby boy almost two years old. From the time I have been…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam5 Nov 2004
What’s the kaffarah for involving in physical relations with a non-Muslim girl, besides asking Allah for repentance? The girl wants to convert to Islam, and i have no problem getting married to her.
There is no Kaffaarah for what you wrote. However, you should spend in charity as much as possible, while asking Allah for forgiveness. and Allah…
Ml. Imraan Vawda - Ask Imaam20 Sep 2004
meaning of the following Hadeeth ?"The worst person on the day of Qiyamah will be the one who reveals the private life of his wife to others."
HADEETH 21. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The worst person on the day of Qiyamah will be the one who reveals the private life of his…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam31 Aug 2004
question 6737, you say that a man can marry a girl and have a sexual relation no matter how young she is.
In the answer to question 6737, you say that a man can marry a girl and have a sexual relation no matter how young she is. I have never heard about…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam24 Aug 2004
I got Nikah couple months ago and found out that the guy is homosexual-gay. He married me for green card. I heard about faskh. can you please tell me if I can get that?
After four weeks into my marriage we had no husband-wife relationship and when I told his family it became a big issue and I said something?s wrong…
Mufti Muhammad Ashraf - Ask Imaam3 Aug 2004
can husband or wife removes each others pubic hair?Is it haram for each other to c their private parts? Or any gunnah?As u can expose to dr in need so y not to husband and wife?
if u find difficulty to wax herself then i think its better to gain help of husband then to other ladies . plz explain me
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam7 Jul 2004
After intimacy made wadu & went back to bed. Morning when I woke up I found out that there was not enough water to take bath. In this state am I permissible to offer the regular 5 prayers
Salaam, pls. answer my following questions: 1)one night after having intercourse with my wife I washed my self & made wadu & went back to bed.…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam30 Jun 2004
Marriage After such relationship which is not jayaz in islam ?
I m a Guy & I M Depressed Because Of One Of My Problem..My Problem Is That I Have Some Realtionships With a girl Which Is Not Jayaz In Islam. I Love…
1SOCIAL DEPT - Ask Imaam29 Jun 2004
I had a conflict between my wife's father and now it has made our relationship very miserable.
As salaam wu alaikum.I have been married for over a year now and have a beautiful baby girl.I love my wife very much and I am sure she loves me…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam25 Jun 2004
Is it haram to marry someone who you know has had sexual intercourse before marriage, but they now regret it, have repented for it and are a better person?
I?ve never had a boyfriend,and have always maintained my chastity for Islamic reasons. However, recently I have met this guy that I like,and I want…
2SOCIAL DEPT - Ask Imaam7 Jun 2004
Is nikah still valid without sexual intercourse for 6 months.
Assalamulaikum Mufti Sahab, I have been married for the last six months. After marriage I didn't get a chance to live with my wife for long. She…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam7 Jun 2004
Questions regarding the legality of marriage - How do non-biological relationships (milk mother/sibling, step-mother/step-sibling) affect if one can marry?
Assalamualaikum, I have four questions pertaining to marriage. All of the following are real situations. 1) There are two people who want to get…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam27 May 2004
My husband issued me 3 talaaqs. I went through the process of halaalah and stayed with my husband for a few weeks but did not have sexual intercourse. Am i halaal to remarry my ex.
Sexual intercourse is a prerequisite for the Halaalah to be valid. You are not Halaal to marry your ex. and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best Mufti Ebrahim…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam26 May 2004
I would like to know, is it allowed for a wife to suck her husbands private parts if he is wearing a flavoured condom?
I would like to know, is it allowed for a wife to suck her husbands private parts if he is wearing a flavoured condom? Jazakallah
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam15 Mar 2004
do mean that a husband can touch or insert his fingers in the private parts of his wife?
Intimacy between the husband and wife is a relationship which should be conducted with mutual understanding and with respect and dignity. That also…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam8 Mar 2004
I understand that a woman has to be intimate with her husband on his request, but where in the Qur'an does it say this?
This is all proof I could find of the above: One of the rights that the husband has over his wife is that he should be able to enjoy her…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam18 Jan 2004
He discharges his sperms very early during our sexual intercourse and I remain dissatisfied. Because of shyness, I can't tell him this.
Dear Mufti, My name is Maria.I got married almost one month ago. I am 26 years old. Alhamdulilah, I have spent my young age in a great peity. I…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam16 Jan 2004
Is sexual talk permissable between husband and wife?
1: Is it permissable for husband and wife to speak sexual talk. Using specific words for private parts. 2: Can wife dance when naked in front of…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam20 Dec 2003
Mouth to Mouth Kissing - Do you mean that this act is very good and highly appreciated between husband and wife in their normal relationship without fasting?
I have seen in one of your answer regarding mouth to mouth kissing during fasting and you have replied that it is not permissible during fasting but…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam17 Dec 2003
I was in a relationship for three years, We realised how wrong it was,and have repented can we still marry?
A couple of years ago I began dating a boy, neither of us was very practising as Muslims at the time. We fell deeply in love and were intent on…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam17 Dec 2003
whats wrong in sex relationship before marriage in islam a none muslim asked me this question and how can i give him the answer to satisfy him. kindly give the complete answer.
he said that if man and women like each othere so he have right to sex because they dont gave any problem to other. so plz gave the answer .
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam10 Dec 2003
I wanted to know that if you end up falling in love with someone who isin't the same religion as you, and you know it will lead to marriage, will the relationship, or the people involved, be haram?
We have no idea whether you are male or female and what is the religion of the ?someone? in reference. At the outset, we wish to point out that…
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam3 Dec 2003
If a person doing a background check on somebody he/she wishes to marry approaches me,should I mention the fact that the person had been involved in a premarital relationship before?
Would it be sinful to hide such information from the person seeking it? Would it be sinful to provide the information?
1Social department - Ask Imaam1 Dec 2003
Is it permissable for a man to look at his wifes private parts including below the navel and vice versa,during intimacy?I've heard one can become blind.
Was it practised by Sahaba(RA)and Pious?
Mufti Ebrahim Desai - Ask Imaam1 Dec 2003
is having a relationship with someone outside of marriage ok, if u know that u r gonna stick with them?
my friend thinks she?s in love, but she?s kinda religious, so she went 2 this holy man n asked him, ?i love this guy, he loves me, but there?s very…
1social Department - Ask Imaam24 Nov 2003
What is islam ruling on relationship between Husband and Wife.
If wife is not interested at all in relationship.If she spend most of time with children and she doesn?t allow Husband to come near her ,some times…
Social Department - Ask Imaam19 Nov 2003
If one has more than one wife say two, what is the relationship between the 2 wives are they in laws? and what is the relationship between the 2 sets of children? - are they cousins?
The wives are co-wives and the children are foster/half brothers and sisters. and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best Ml. Husain Kadodia FATWA DEPT.
Ml. Husain Kadodia
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