Marriage · Subtopic

Proposals & Premarital Relations

446 fatawa from 7 South African Darul Iftas on Proposals & Premarital Relations, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.

Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.

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Mufti Online276Ask Imaam152Ibn Masood10Jamiat KZN4Azaadville2Camperdown1DU Zakariyya1

Proposals & Premarital Relations fatawa — page 7 of 12

  1. Mufti Online3 Oct 2016Roman Urdu

    Shaadi ke beghair larki se baat karna

    Mujhe teen bachche hai. Mere sauhar dusri shadi karna chchte hai unka kehna hai ki unko aur bachche chaye jis ki wajah se wo gair ladki log se bat…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  2. Mufti Online29 Sep 2016Roman Urdu

    Na mahram awrat ki sowch ku dil me rakhna

    Me ayk larki se chaar saal se mbt karta hu. Wo larki ab mera se bath bhi karna nahi chahti hai. Us ladki ke dil me mare mbt kaisa paida karna…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  3. Mufti Online3 Sep 2016

    Taking an oath that if I marry a certain person, the nikaah is not valid

    I keep making oaths and I am worried they will affect if I am allowed to marry my fiance or not. I made an oath that if I marry him then my marriage…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  4. Mufti Online1 Sep 2016

    Hugging and kissing a non-mahram

    What is the definition of Zina in the Qur'an and Hadith? Does kissing and hugging come under zina and is this the same as having sex with a na…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  5. Mufti Online22 Aug 2016Roman Urdu

    Shaadi shuda awrat se najaaiz taalluq rakhna

    Main yateem hun. Main 4 month ka tha jab parents k death ho gye main aik cousin sey pyar krta hn bht par uske shadi ho gye wh larka usy bht zalel…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  6. Mufti Online8 Aug 2016Roman Urdu

    Na mahram larki se baat karna

    Meri lover ha. Wo muj sa bht naraz ha. To mene kawab ma daka k wo apni university sa parah k wapis ja ri ha or ma us sa bat karna ki kosish kar ra…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  7. Mufti Online30 Jul 2016

    Zina before nikaah

    When I met my wife and asked her hand in marriage, she agreed but we committed zina before she introduced me to her parents and before we were…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  8. Mufti Online16 Jul 2016Roman Urdu

    Nikaah se pehle najaaiz taalluq rakhna

    Mera ek ladki se che saal se rishta tha me hi uske piche pda tha wo shuru se nikah ki zid karti thi mene apni ammi se baat bhi ki thi unhone kaha…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  9. Mufti Online14 Jul 2016Roman Urdu

    Nikaah se pehle taalluq rakhna

    Mera ek ladki se che saal se rishta tha me hi uske piche para tha wo shuru se nikah ki zid krti thi mene apni ammi se baat bhi ki thi unhone kaha…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  10. Mufti Online25 May 2016

    Can a person marry the daughter of the woman whom he committed zina with?

    My question is it permissible to have nikah with girl with whose mother I did zina? Now the story is that I did zina with a woman but the reality is…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  11. Mufti Online8 May 2016

    Biwi dowsre lowgo ke saat zina me mubtala hona

    Agar biwi nikaah me hai aur biwi dusre admiyo se hum bistari kare to kya ushe talaak dena chahiye ya shariyat me kuch aisa mujhe plzz mujhe batye.

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  12. Mufti Online8 May 2016Roman Urdu

    Gay marriage owr haraam talluqaat

    Mera sawaal ye hai ke aaj kal bohot zyada trend me hone ki wjah se girlfriend boyfrien culture ko follow karke ek haram relation me reh kar couples…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  13. Mufti Online5 May 2016

    Consulting one's parents and family elders with regards to nikaah

    I want to ask about istakhara. I will do it according to the Sunnah method. I want to know about my marriage. I want to know about love marriage and…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  14. Mufti Online2 May 2016Roman Urdu

    Shaadi shuda awrat ke saat talluq rakhna

    Jis larki se main nikah karna chahta uska nikah kisi owr se hogya. Ab wo dono me talaaq hone wali hai. Wo lrki mjhse nikah krna chahti hai aur main…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  15. Ask Imaam25 Apr 2016

    I regret rejecting the boy’s proposal

    I had a marriage purposal a month ago, I was hesitant at first thinking I wasnt ready, however I was told they are a very nice, small, pious family.…

    Maaz Chati
  16. Mufti Online24 Apr 2016Roman Urdu

    Paraaya aadmi se nikaah se pehle ta'alluqaat rakhna

    Mera masla ye he ke mai ek ladke se mohabt karti thi pr uski maa mujhe pasand nahi krti thi or uski shaadi kara di uske bad maine usse contact nahi…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  17. Mufti Online12 Apr 2016Roman Urdu

    Na mahram larke ke saat baat karna owr taalluq rakhna

    Mera aapse yeh sawal hai ke mera liya ek rishta aaya hai jo 5 saal se humare peecha pade hua hai rishta k liya per mare ammi is rishta k liya Nahi…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  18. Mufti Online4 Apr 2016

    Covering the faults of others

    I did nikah with a woman few days before. The very next day from someone outside I find out that my wife had physical relationship out of marriage…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  19. Mufti Online4 Apr 2016

    Istikhaara for marriage

    I did istikhaara for marriage and in my dream I found that he (the person I am getting married to) and myself are writing an exam and in the dream I…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  20. Ask Imaam1 Apr 2016

    Istikhara Dream

    I and a Muslim guy are interested in marrying each other. Recently he performed Istikhara and on 2nd day he saw this dream: He saw that he is…

    Huzaifah Deedat
  21. Mufti Online16 Mar 2016Roman Urdu

    Nikaah se pehle ajnabi mard ke saath ta'alluq rakhna

    Mera ek swal he. Me ek ldko ko 7 saal se janti thi wo mjhe ye ykin dilata tha ki wo mjhse nikah krega mene uski ammi ko ghar walo ko mnane k lie jo…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  22. Mufti Online16 Mar 2016

    Married woman making istikhaara to get married to another man

    I'm married for ten years. I was having problems with my husband and during the problems times I was supported by a male colleague who is married as…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  23. Mufti Online5 Mar 2016Roman Urdu

    Shaadi se pehle zina karna

    Mera sawal ye hai ke agr biwine shaddi de se phale sex kar chuki hai ek se ziyada afrad ke sath wo bhi anginat martaba aur shaddi ke bad agr wo apne…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  24. Mufti Online5 Mar 2016

    Istikhaarah for marriage

    I have had a few dreams in the past year regarding a particular person and I wanted to know if they are baseless or significant. 1. I saw myself…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  25. Mufti Online23 Feb 2016Roman Urdu

    Na mahram larki owr larka ayk dowsre se baat karna owr dowsti rakhna

    Meri mohbt 14 year ak lrky sy thi. Wo India tha me pakistan me hum. Shaadi nahi karsaky. Kuch din phly us lrky ki death hogai. Kia me ab uski…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  26. Mufti Online23 Feb 2016

    Istikhaara for marriage

    I made an istakhara namaz for marriage. I saw myself with my aunt and some other relatives at some other home with a small kid. The kid is playing…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  27. Mufti Online21 Feb 2016

    Istikhaara for marriage

    My mother did istikhara for my marriage and first day of istikhara she saw one young lady along with little girl offering salaah (namaz) wearing…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  28. Mufti Online15 Feb 2016

    Husband involved in a relationship with another man

    I am in great trouble and need sharia based solution. My husband is having sexual relationship with male guys and has been in this practice since…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  29. Mufti Online11 Feb 2016

    Husband having an affair with a young girl

    I found out that my husband is having an affair with a 21 year old muslim girl. He has confessed that he does love her. So I read istikara to ask…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  30. Mufti Online10 Feb 2016

    Communicating before nikaah

    My question is that if someone is getting engaged and he she want to chat, is it permissible for the both and if not then is their any other way?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  31. Mufti Online8 Feb 2016

    Wife having affairs with other men

    I have been married for fourteen years. I have three daughter. For the past seven years my wife had affairs with different men and I tried every…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  32. Ask Imaam4 Feb 2016

    Should I continue with the proposal?

    I recently got engaged to a practicing muslim, he is from tablighi jamaat I didn't saw him and talk to him, he also didn't saw me or talk to me…

    Jibran Kadarkhan
  33. Mufti Online4 Feb 2016

    Covering the faults of others

    I don't know if my heart has truly forgiven my wife for this unforgettable act she committed (adultery). We are still together but I can't seem to…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  34. Mufti Online1 Feb 2016Roman Urdu

    Istikhaara karne ke ba'd khwaab nahi dekhna

    Mai kisi larki ko pasand kerta hu. Maine meri ami ne or larki ne istikhara kia lakin kisi ko kuch nazar nai aya. Maine khud istekhara teen din…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  35. Mufti Online5 Jan 2016

    Getting married after committing zina

    I had a question, I commited zina with a woman who is my wife. She got pregnant at the time however we did not repent at that time. The imam that…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  36. Mufti Online5 Jan 2016

    Being attracted to a girl

    I like a girl who is 17 years old and my age is 19 years. We both are classmates. I Would like to marry her. But I am not independent because I am…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  37. Mufti Online5 Jan 2016

    Choosing between two proposals

    There is a boy who's character is very good and praised by all but he doesn't wear topi, jubba and all. He wears normal clothes, he has very humble…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  38. Mufti Online5 Jan 2016

    Getting married after being involved in premarital affairs

    I'm 27 years old. I'm basically from India and working in this country. My family has arranged a girl for me who is a local Muslim girl born in this…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  39. Mufti Online3 Jan 2016

    Mother not being pleased with the girl one wishes to marry

    My mum is refusing to marry me to a woman because she didn't find her pretty and she didn't like the girl's family. She says that they are dangerous…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  40. Mufti Online29 Dec 2015

    Getting married to save oneself from sin

    I have a question about zina. For example there is a man named Adnan and a woman named Fatimah. Fatimah calls Adnan and asks him to come over. Now…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee

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