Marriage · Subtopic
Marital Problems & Counselling
382 fatawa from 4 South African Darul Iftas on Marital Problems & Counselling, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Marital Problems & Counselling fatawa — page 7 of 10
- Mufti Online5 May 2016
Listening to one's parents
I have a common issue. I want to get married to a girl but my parents don't want her. I love and respect my family but I really want to marry this…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Apr 2016
Not living with the new husband out of fear of losing custody of one's children
I have a Muslim co-worker that got married a few months. She was a divorcee. The man she married has a teenage son from a previous marriage. She…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online30 Apr 2016Roman Urdu
Nikaah me pareshaani
Mujhe aapse advise chahiye ke mera apny husband se khula lena behter hai ya osky ravaye me tabdili ka intezaar karon. Mery husband ne mujhse dosri…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online24 Apr 2016
Husband intending to back to Christianity
I need advise regarding my husband who has converted into Islam for 5 years and now he says he wants to go back to Christianity because Islam is too…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Apr 2016
Husband only taking the first wife for umrah
My husband has two wifes and I am his second wife. My husband had performed umrah four times already with his first wife and he is going again to…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Apr 2016
Does a boy require his parents permission if he has a need to get married?
I am B.Tech qualified student doing M.Tech. My uncle is repeatedly saying to continue M.Tech and pursue Ph.D and become assistant professor which…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online23 Apr 2016
Boy marrying a girl without his parents consent
A boy married a older girl without the consent of his parents in the presence of two male witnesses. Now if he wishes to tell his parents about it…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online21 Apr 2016
Imaam being appointed as the wakeel of the girl
Due to certain circumstances my daughter and I have had little contact. In December she told me she want to get married and that she would like if I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online20 Apr 2016
Parents not letting the daughter remarry
I don't know if you will read my message but I pray that you can help solve my problem. I had a very tough life with my ex-husband and in-laws but I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online16 Apr 2016
Forcing the girl to marry someone whom she is unhappy to marry
I would like to know is the nikaah valid if the couples are not willing by heart? Especially the bride? If they just accept the nikaah because of…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online4 Apr 2016
Covering the faults of others
I did nikah with a woman few days before. The very next day from someone outside I find out that my wife had physical relationship out of marriage…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online16 Mar 2016
Wife forcing the husband to promise that he will never touch her
What to do if a wife asks her husband to make a promise to not even touch her till death (maut tak, married in 2015)? Must he make sabar?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online16 Mar 2016
Wife doesn't like the husband
My wife does not like me. Can I live with imagining a girl (jannat wife)?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Mar 2016
Making a thorough investigation before making a decision
I had indented to marry a lady then during our conversation after couple of months before nikaah I came to know that she is greedy and I fear that…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online13 Mar 2016
Marital problems
I am asking this question for my aunt. My husband says that my father passed away when he was young because of my ghuna's. The reason being that he…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online13 Mar 2016
Marital problems
I am married to a man who has already a first wife and children I am his second wife. I am very upset. I married him but my parents don't know About…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online29 Feb 2016
Husband not adhering to the Sunnah
1. A woman's husband wears ordinary dresses like pant shirts and all not sunnah way of dressing like kurta pyjama, but wife wants him to wear sunnah…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Feb 2016
Girl not happy to get married to the boy her parents have chosen for her
My marriage proposal is going on and my family members selected one boy for me. My family likes this proposal as the boy is hafiz e quran and amil…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN17 Feb 2016
Why same religion in a marriage is important?
Why same religion in a marriage is important?
Hafizurrahman Fatehmahomed - Mufti Online15 Feb 2016
Taking a second wife
My question is about my wife. I have normally extreme need of sex but my wife does not allow me to have properly she come to me only twice or thrice…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Feb 2016
Husband involved in a relationship with another man
I am in great trouble and need sharia based solution. My husband is having sexual relationship with male guys and has been in this practice since…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online11 Feb 2016
Husband having an affair with a young girl
I found out that my husband is having an affair with a 21 year old muslim girl. He has confessed that he does love her. So I read istikara to ask…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online10 Feb 2016
Consulting one's parents in regard to nikaah
My question is how can a girl make nikaah himself?
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online9 Feb 2016
Doing things with the husband's consent
I need to know that if the husband does not want children to study in standard English medium school because he does not want t o invest in…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online9 Feb 2016
Apprehending harm from the first wife
I am making nikkah soon Insha Allah. I will become a second wife to this man. He is married to a very violent woman and this is one of my concerns…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Feb 2016
Husband using chat rooms
I am married for 27 years and found out my husband is on chat room. Each time he tells me he is done with it, just to find out that he is still busy…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Feb 2016
Wife having affairs with other men
I have been married for fourteen years. I have three daughter. For the past seven years my wife had affairs with different men and I tried every…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN22 Jan 2016
Second Wife
My husband said he divorced me one time. About two months later he came to visit my city and we had relations. That nullifies the utterance of…
Hafizurrahman Fatehmahomed - Mufti Online18 Jan 2016
Husband living abroad
I am a married woman 24 years old. My husband is abroad and due to passport and visa issues, I have to wait till I get over there. I pray salah five…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN18 Jan 2016
Can I be someones ‘second’ secret wife?
I have recently reverted to Islam. There is a man who is interested in me and wants to make me his second wife. i agreed to it but now he says he…
- Mufti Online3 Jan 2016
Mother not being pleased with the girl one wishes to marry
My mum is refusing to marry me to a woman because she didn't find her pretty and she didn't like the girl's family. She says that they are dangerous…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online29 Dec 2015
Wife showing her disapproval due to the husband not performing Salaah
If husband doesn't pray and wife gets angry for that time and doesn't want to talk to her husband, is this allowed?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online16 Dec 2015
Being possessive over one's wife
My question is regarding my own personality which I think is like a dual personality or I am a selfish person. I love my wife and respect her as…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online15 Dec 2015
Encouraging the husband to perform Salaah
My question is about that my husband does not pray regularly even if he got time. He is lazy and he get depressed in life and he can't do a proper…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Dec 2015
Husband involved in a haraam relationship
I am a revert Muslim and have been married for 6 years. Its been 6 months that my husband is seeing another girl and recently moved in with her a…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Dec 2015
Marital problems
My mother often spoke some harsh things to my wife. I came to know these things from my wife later. What should I do in this case? As far as I know…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Dec 2015Roman Urdu
Biwi owr bache ka haq ada karna
Agar shohar ne kamaye or bivi bachchhe ka haq na adaa kare or bivi ki kamayi khaye to? Please answer. Bivi kab tak bardasht late?
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online23 Nov 2015
Husband not coming to fetch the wife
I am a Pakistani girl living in Bahrain. I got married in April and came back to Bahrain. I am waiting for rukhsati but since I came back I have…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online22 Nov 2015
Restricting the mother in-law from visiting more than once a week
I would like to ask you is there a verse in the Quraan that states about privacy for example knocking as one's residence and they refuse to let you…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online16 Nov 2015
Procedure for the wife asking for a divorce
Kindly explain the rules of a woman asking for a divorce.
Mufti Zakaria Makada
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