Marriage · Subtopic
Marital Problems & Counselling
382 fatawa from 4 South African Darul Iftas on Marital Problems & Counselling, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.
Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.
By Darul Ifta
Marital Problems & Counselling fatawa — page 8 of 10
- Mufti Online11 Nov 2015
Husband using the wife's money
I want to learn driving but my husband seems jealous. The problem is that he is always travelling and seem to love wife's money a lot because I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online25 Oct 2015
Marital not interested in the marriage
My husband has become so hostile towards me. He cannot find a job and blames me for that, as I have misplaced his CV. I tried creating one again,…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Oct 2015
Parents not happy with the girl one has married
My parents are angry on me because I did not obey them and married one divorced lady. Actually they agreed initially but after some time my sisters…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online20 Oct 2015
Living with one's wife abroad
I am working abroad and I would like to call my wife here. My father passed away and I have four younger brothers in the house with my mother and…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online14 Oct 2015
Consulting one's parents in matters of nikaah
I have gotten a proposal from a brother which I was going to accept but due to some reason we cannot go ahead. He has a mental block. We would like…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Sep 2015
Not getting married to the girl one was involved with
Its regarding marriage. I had a girlfriend (we didn't do the unlawful thing together) and we were set to get married the halal way with both of our…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online8 Sep 2015
Listening to the husband
I did not attend a very close family function as my husband asked me not to, for certain reasons with my uncle. Now everyone's upset because I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online29 Aug 2015
Husband involved with another woman
I am a forty year old women. Married for 21 years. My husband is involved with a women. I had caught him several times doing heinous activities. I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online29 Aug 2015
Wife staying at her sisters house
My wife wants to stay at her sister's residence for a couple of nights alone. However, the husband of her sister, although her first cousin, is not…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online26 Aug 2015
Boys party insisting on performing the nikaah immediately
My daughter got a marriage proposal from a boy. My daughter is doing 3rd year aalima course at a local madressa and will complete end 2017. This…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online26 Aug 2015
Marriage problems
I want to ask the most important question of my life. Please answer me. I am married since 12 years. I have three daughters. My husband is nice,…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online15 Aug 2015
Difficulty in getting one's daughter married
Me and my family try to live according to the sharia and fulfill all the rulings of deen to some extent alhamdulillah. I have a twenty years old…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online10 Aug 2015
Husband unable to fulfil the wife's desires
My question is that my husband is unable to fulfil my sexual desire. He feels tired and sick and he is 20 years older than me. My question is in…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online10 Aug 2015
Getting married with the blessings of one's parents
I am 18 years old and have received a proposal from a guy who is 32 years old. I am quite keen and I have performed istikhara and so has a moulana…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online9 Aug 2015
Unhappy to get married to the person chosen by one's parents
I'm getting married this month 26th August. I only agreed because my parents were happy. He is from Pakistan but I don't feel anything for him. I…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online9 Aug 2015
Stopping the previous husband from living with his new wife
I am Australia based. After a long sour relationship I divorced my ex-wife. She has completed her iddat now. I re-married back home and want to…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online9 Aug 2015
Husband taking care of the expenses of the house
My husband gives me R1000 a month just for groceries and at the end of the month I give him R1000 to pay for our water account, is that right? He…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN4 Aug 2015
Can step-children marry each other
A woman is divorced with a daughter. She has remarried a divorced man who has a son. Can the (previously) divorced man’s son marry the (previously)…
Mufti Ismaeel Bassa - Mufti Online2 Jun 2015
A Muslim wife
I am a revert muslimah and have recently married a Muslim man. We have spoken on occasion and he has outlined what he would like in a wife. I would…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online23 May 2015
Consulting one's parents with regards to nikaah
I love a person and I wish to marry him. Kindly please make istakhara for me if he is the right person or not.
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online21 May 2015
Consulting with one's elders with regards to nikaah
I am suffering from depression. I wanted to marry a boy from a different culture to mine and his family rejected based on culture. This has ruined…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online19 May 2015
Husband going for one year jamaat
A sister is asking that her husband wants to go for jamaat for one year and she can't even stay away from him for two months without being close to…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online5 May 2015
Communicating before nikaah
My friend is getting married this August and her would be keeps on saying about getting her in Jannah, but she is scared while hearing this as she…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online2 May 2015
Obeying one's husband
If i do something without my husband's permission, is this wrong? My husband don't want me to leave my house when he is not home. I want to sell…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online1 Apr 2015
Marriage problems
I want to ask you my condition related to Quran and Ahadith. Two years earlier my parents engaged me to guy who was morally, family wise, and…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN13 Mar 2015
Saving My Husband from Porn Addiction (2/2)
I got the answer from previous question: How to Help My Husband Out of Porn Addiction? And I already did all.The thing is he is more comfort about…
- Jamiat KZN13 Mar 2015
Saving My Husband from Porn Addiction (1/2)
The problem in our relationship is that my husband is much interested and passionate to porn sites. He is open and honest; he never denies what he…
- Mufti Online10 Mar 2015
Consulting one's elders with regards to nikaah
I am in love with a girl who is my aunts daughters. I want to legalise this relationship by performing nikaah with her but my parents are against it…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online7 Mar 2015
Asking the husband for divorce
I recently got married to a man I thought I knew. But I have found out he is not the person I thought he was. He will chat different women on social…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online25 Feb 2015
Marrying a married man
Are we as Muslim women allowed to marry a married Muslim man. I like my boss. Everyone says he is married but he never told me he was married. I…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online24 Feb 2015
Parents preventing the boy from getting married
I am a 21 years old boy and I am graduating this year in June with an engineering degree. My family is well settled Alhumdulilah and we don't have…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online15 Feb 2015
Getting married as a second wife
I would like to find out something regarding talaaq. My husband and I have been recently divorced due to many issues we have been having along the…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online31 Jan 2015
Wife committing zina
My wife had sex with one of her contacts. She slept with him on the first time they decided to meet at his place and she only chatted with him for a…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online27 Jan 2015
Taking a second wife
I am 35 years old. Married with children. I have decided to take a second wife. I told my wife everything that had happened and want to take a…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Jamiat KZN26 Jan 2015
Ownership of Mahr
If a husband gives his wife Mahr at the time of the Nikah, what authority does the wife have over it? If she remarries, does she have to return the…
Mufti Ismaeel Bassa - Jamiat KZN13 Jan 2015
Marrying a revert who did not change their name
Q. Is it necessary to change a Muslim revert’s non-Muslim name to a Muslim name for a Nikah to be valid?
Mufti Ismaeel Bassa - Mufti Online7 Jan 2015
Husband taking a second wife
My husband and I are both reverts. I have no mahram to protect my rights. I found out on Tuesday that my husband has a new wife. It was secret for a…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online29 Dec 2014
Being in contact with a na mahram woman
Is it permissible for a married molvi to touch another woman who he is in love with but will not marry because for him its not a big deal to touch a…
Mufti Zakaria Makada - Mufti Online17 Dec 2014
Consulting one's parents with regards to nikaah
My family want me to get married and there is a guy that I want to get married to and he wants to marry me. However , I am Indian and he is Bengali…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee - Mufti Online16 Dec 2014
Mentioning one's past to one's spouse
I am doing the aalimah course and have been told in mishkat lesson by the ustadh that when one gets married and between the husband and wife in…
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
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