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Walimah & Wedding Customs

686 fatawa from 8 South African Darul Iftas on Walimah & Wedding Customs, part of Marriage. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.

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Walimah & Wedding Customs fatawa — page 16 of 18

  1. Mufti Online3 Jun 2013

    Food for nikaah or walimah

    Should food be prepared for the nikah or only for the walimah? Must it be the cheapest possible, like fresh fruit and vegetables instead of biryani?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  2. Mufti Online28 May 2013Roman Urdu

    Jahaan maa baap khush hai wahaan nikaah karna

    Mai nai shadi kai liye Istkhara kiya kai mai jahan chahti hu wahan mairi Shadi ho jai ge ya nahi.

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  3. Mufti Online22 May 2013Roman Urdu

    Khala ki larki ke sath nikah

    Kiya khala ki larki ke sath nikah ho sakta he?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  4. Mufti Online9 May 2013

    Walimah after seclusion

    If the walimah takes place after seclusion instead of consummation of the marriage would the sunnat be fulfilled?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  5. Mufti Online9 May 2013Roman Urdu

    Gawaaho ke baghair nikaah

    Kia larka larki apna nikah khud parh skty hai bina kise gawa ka?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  6. Mufti Online6 May 2013

    Walima 1 or 2 weeks after the nikaah

    Is it permissible to have the Walima 1 or 2 weeks after the Nikah, or does it have to be done within 3days after the Nikah?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  7. Mufti Online6 May 2013

    When should the walima be held and by whom?

    What is the requirement for Walima? Is it necessary that the bridegroom has sex with his bride and then has the walima the next day. If the bride…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  8. Mufti Online6 May 2013

    Secret nikaah without parents consent

    A female who is Aalima got married with a non Aalim without the parents consent (in secret) is the Nikah valid?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  9. Mufti Online15 Apr 2013Roman Urdu

    Kia naani maan ka doodh pene wali ladki se nikah

    Kia naani maan ka doodh pene wali ladki se nikah kia ja sakta hai?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  10. Mufti Online14 Apr 2013

    Secret nikaah

    I am currently engaged to a certain girl. We are completely in love with each other and go out together all the time. To save ourselves from Haraam…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  11. Ask Imaam5 Apr 2013

    Attending Wedding with Haraam Practices

    Is it allowed for me to join the wedding of my sister or brother (family), when they plan dancing, loud music? (with no gender cegregation) My…

    Ismail Desai
  12. Mufti Online15 Jan 2013

    Till which day can the walima be held after the nikaah?

    After the nikaah till how many days can the walima be held?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  13. Mufti Online2 Jan 2013

    How many days after the nikaah can the walimah be delayed?

    How long after the nikaah can the walimah be held i.e. how many days after the nikaah?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  14. Ask Imaam2 Dec 2012

    Walima Question

    As_salaamu_alaikum, I am enquiring on behalf of my friend, the couple have made nikaah and lived together for 3 years – the couple wants to have a…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  15. Mufti Online10 Nov 2012

    Taking a second wife without the first wife’s approval

    Is it permissible for a man to take a second wife without his first wife’s approval?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  16. Mufti Online8 Sep 2012

    Performing one's own Nikaah secretly

    My friend performed his nikah (khutab) himself in presence of two male witness, is this nikah valid?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  17. Ask Imaam30 Mar 2012

    Is it permissible to celebrate Wedding Anniversaries and Birthdays?

    Asslam u alaikum Mufti Sahab I want to calarify that. what is concept of Marriage Anniversary and Happy Birthday in Islam, we can celebrate these…

    Mawlana Abdul Hannan Nizami
  18. Ask Imaam21 Sep 2011

    Who is responsible for dowry and wedding costs?

    Who is responsible for the dowry and the wedding costs? If the bride refuses to consummate marriage who is responsible for the dowry and wedding…

    Mawlana Faraz Ibn Adam
  19. Ask Imaam13 Aug 2010

    Is it permissible for me to attend the Christian wedding in the church/hall?... since many of my co-workers are christian... I already attend few of the ceremony with the intention of friendship...

    Is it permissible for me to attend the Christian wedding in the church/hall?... since many of my co-workers are christian... I already attend few of…

    Ml. Zakariyya bin Ahmed
  20. Ask Imaam12 Mar 2010

    Just want to clear that can a muslim use a condom on the first night of his wedding if he want to go for a family planning one of my friend told me that its haram to use a

    its a very good knowledgeable site on the internet i appericate it Just want to clear that can a muslim use a condom on the first night of his…

    Ml. Ebrahim Desai
  21. Jamiat KZN25 Feb 2010

    Is it permissible to bake wedding cakes?

    1. Can u please inform me if making wedding cakes is permissible? 2. Is it permissible 2 make novelty cakes eg.in the shape of a car or a barbie…

    Mufti Suhail Tarmahomed
  22. Ask Imaam28 Mar 2009

    I know that the walima ceremony is sunnat. can u please tell me if it is permissible to have a walima ceremony years later after a marriage.

    I know that the walima ceremony is sunnat. can u please tell me if it is permissible to have a walima ceremony years later after a marriage.

    Ml. Mohammad Ashhad bin Said
  23. Ask Imaam6 Mar 2009

    1. i was given a platinum diamond ring as my wedding ring,i know platinum is haram for men so what i would like to know is can i resell the ring back to jewelers and use the

    1. i was given a platinum diamond ring as my wedding ring,i know platinum is haram for men so what i would like to know is can i resell the ring…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  24. Ask Imaam2 Mar 2009

    After Sunday, i am now officially engaged. Both his and my parents are happy with this. Although we do not have a date yet, i would like to know on which days it would be best to have the wedding reception,

    After Sunday, i am now officially engaged. Both his and my parents are happy with this. Although we do not have a date yet, i would like to know on…

    Ml. Sajid Ali
  25. Ask Imaam10 Nov 2008

    My wedding consisted of many celebratiosn that most Pakistani wedding nowadays consist of. Loud music, dancing, dhol playing, mehndi, manya... so many things that i am sure you know were traditions of the hindu people....Does this mean that my Marriage is not valid?

    I married to a pakistani muslim about 3 years ago. My father was in control of the wedding arrangements and celebrations. If i am completely honest…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  26. Ask Imaam23 Oct 2008

    A 20 yr old girl has performed a nikah 7 months ago with the father and grand farhers being the witness and rep.A mahr of R8500 cash was paid. Walima took place a month later.

    A 20 yr old girl has performed a nikah 7 months ago with the father and grand farhers being the witness and rep.A mahr of R8500 cash was paid.…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  27. Ask Imaam26 Jun 2008

    From an islamic point of view (Hadeeth or Quraan), who takes care of the wedding expenses?

    From an islamic point of view (Hadeeth or Quraan), who takes care of the wedding expenses? According to my understanding: in the KZN province the…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  28. Ask Imaam18 Jun 2008

    This was not an Islamic wedding but there was one Muslim that attended

    My wife and I originally married before converting to Islam. We didn't tell most of our family because we had intended on doing a larger wedding at…

    Ml. Asif Umar
  29. Ask Imaam8 Jun 2008

    Clebrations like dholki, mayoon, mehndi, shaadi are rampant in the culture

    I seek your advice on an important matter regarding my wedding celebrations. My nikah was done in a mosque about 4 months back and the Rukhsati is…

    Ml. Yusuf bin Yaqub
  30. Ask Imaam26 Feb 2008

    What exactly is Walima?

    I want to ask a question, I live in uk and engagement was done 3 month back , my nikah will be after 3 month but and then after 5 month i will do…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  31. Ask Imaam1 Feb 2008

    Is it permissible to eat at a close relavtives house which is on a mortgage?... muslim weddings which you dont know where the meat came from?..to pray salah when you havn't seen the discharge but have felt it?

    Is it permissible to eat at a close relavtives house which is on a mortgage? Is it permissble to go to muslim weddings which you dont know where the…

  32. Ask Imaam29 Nov 2007

    Walima

    “Walima” Alhamdulilah we know the meaning of Walima, but I have one question about Walima, but before I ask you a question late me inform you about…

    Ml. Ehzaz Ajmeri
  33. Ask Imaam13 May 2007

    Can a couple spend time before the Walima

    I would like to know if nikkah was held in April 2007,The bride will only come & live with the groom 6-8 weeks later but they will be meeting &…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  34. Ask Imaam1 May 2007

    Walima

    Assalaamu alaikum, Mufti Saheb What is the fatawa concerning a walima.

  35. Ask Imaam24 Jan 2007

    I had seen my Cousin Sisters daughter at our family wedding...

    I had seen my Cousin Sisters daughter at our family wedding and felt my inner soul saying i should get married to her.I am yet to perform Istikharah…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  36. Ask Imaam11 Nov 2006

    iam in a huge dilemma,i got married 2 weeks back to a muslim guy in a mosque ,we knew each other for almost 4 years and his parents did not agree for our wedding,my husband refused to have a valimah party

    iam in a huge dilemma,i got married 2 weeks back to a muslim guy in a mosque ,we knew each other for almost 4 years and his parents did not agree…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  37. Ask Imaam19 Jun 2006

    Is there any hadith or the practice of Sahaba in which the bride had shared the expenses of walima with bridegroom.

    In your Fatwa # 14267 you have given a verdict as "The bride’s party should not be burdened with the expenses or part of the expenses for the…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  38. Ask Imaam7 Jun 2006

    Is it necessary for the people from the bridegroom's side to bear 100% expenses for the walimah after nikah

    Is it necessary for the people from the bridegroom's side to bear 100% expenses for the walimah after nikah or can the expenses be shared by the…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  39. Ask Imaam26 May 2006

    Is it necessary for the people from the bridegroom's side to bear 100% expenses for the walimah after nikah

    Is it necessary for the people from the bridegroom's side to bear 100% expenses for the walimah after nikah or can the expenses be shared by the…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai
  40. Ask Imaam5 Apr 2006

    compulsory for a wife to have sexual intercourse with her husband on their wedding night, ie the day before her walima.

    I wanted to know whether it is compulsory for a wife to have sexual intercourse with her husband on their wedding night, ie the day before her…

    Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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